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So, I want to wish all of you OD folk a Happy Christmas. Even if it isn’t a day that is exactly spiritually important to me, I still enjoy the time with my family and appreciating that I’ve been blessed with another year with them. Having allowed myself an opportunity for objective reflection over the last few days, I’m reminded that I do live a pretty astonishingly awesome life.
For starters I have a well-paying job in which I spend roughly half of my time goofing off and having debates over issues like whether a suit coat and blazer are the same thing (they aren’t). Enjoying this job is important since I spend more of my waking hours there than anywhere else.
I have parents that are still very healthy at 60 and who love me unconditionally. I have a circle of close friends that I value a lot – several of these friends adore me to an irrational level and imagine that I’m far wiser than I actually am. I have a beautiful and amazing girlfriend who somehow never tires of talking to me and is always eager to find ways that the two of us can spend more time together.
I have the ability to talk to people all across the world whenever I want to, more or less for free, something that no person in the history of humanity could say a generation ago. I get to take multiple vacations every year and get to travel lots of fun places, not to mention the travel I get to enjoy during my work (most recently a trip to South Beach in Miami!). I’m in good health and haven’t had any illness to speak of in years and wake up every day free of pain. I can afford to eat most any food I want, whenever I want, including regularly paying other people to prepare my food for me. I have great sex regularly with a beautiful girl and have somehow managed to live to 26 without ever once having sex that I regretted. I have the ability to access nearly any form of media that I would like – be it a book I want to read or a movie that I want to watch and can afford to experience as much of this as I want for what amounts to an immaterial percentage of my income. And on top of all this I have a diary that I can write in and random people from across the globe, whom I have never met, will read it and comment on it, regardless of how poorly it is written.
I could keep going, but I think my point has been made. In short, my life is awesome. Seriously, compared to all of these wonderful things in my life, what sort of things do I have to complain of? That the Atlanta Braves should have had a better baseball season? That I can’t express how lucky I am in words?
Merry Christmas.
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: ) Merry Christmas, Matto! ~I’ll be
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Merry Christmas to you. I wish you your happy life to continue on in its way.
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And my friend, that’s the spirit of Christmas…admitting how fortunate you are and how grateful that you are fortunate. I am very happy that they are. ~SMF
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Maybe check out this guy’s website I found: professor-d.blogspot.com It’s about psychology and such. I’ve a feeling you’d be interested therein.
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Wish you a New Year that continues to be as good as you have it. Its great about how wonderful your life is and best of all you are aware of it and treasure it.
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Good to read, mate… hope it all continues and improves indefinitely for you.
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Are you excited about our January OD Challenge? We can call it JaWiOnWeMo (January Write Once a Week Month). Really. That’s only four times. Maybe we should up the stakes. Sentence a day? Paragraph? JaSeDaMo has a nice ring to it.
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Merry belated Christmas!
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r: I know that I am not very out-there in my expectations for a partner, but you’d be surprised at how many men in my age group fail to meet even those qualifications. He’s incredibly well-rounded, which is why I am so glad to have met him when I did.
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i love reading entries like this. they really warm my heart more than any holiday ever could.
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r: You are completely right. I know that it’s still super early, that I’m still learning about him and myself. It’s just the whole emotionally withholding, “I don’t want to talk about it” shit has caused me a lot of grief in the past. I know that it takes time to build trust, and for some it takes longer than others.
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(cont.) Which is why I have an OD–unloading here means that I’m not about to go freak him out by dumping a bunch of emotional shit on him. I’m going to leave him alone and give him space.
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I agree…suit coats and blazers are NOT the same thing. I’m glad you have time at work to discuss this important issue! Hope you and your family had a great Christmas and New Year’s. It’s always good to take time to put life in perspective. Sounds like I have a new resolution to add to my list!
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