NoJoMo: Vingt-Trois
Math was pointless…Busy work again…& she was out of the room for most of it, as she was giving another class a test and had to keep checking on them.
Got nothing done that was planned…Couldn’t get into the computer lab to print the stuff I wanted to print, as they both had classes in them! The one is suppose to be semi-reserved for classes to use…But the other is suppose to be open for the rest of us to be able to get in and use. [I ended up having to do the printing at home, as I need part of it, hopefully, for homework this week-end.]
I couldn’t do anything after school because I had to be here in case Sonja showed up…Which she did.
It’s the Idiot’s week-end & holiday, so he was picking them up after school…Sonja got on the bus & came home. She said she was going to…So at least it wasn’t a surprise…But got to thinking I should be home to diffuse things to the best of my ability when her father came looking for her.
There were a lot of tears, and me telling her it’d be okay, that they get to come home a day earlier than usual, and this is the last bit he’s going to be around for 2 weeks…The whole time thinking ‘Can’t you see how miserable you are making her?’
This took an hour…& at one point, when I was going to get her shoes & socks, she grabbed the bathroom key from the place we keep it in the hall, and locked herself in the bathroom. *sigh* Why can’t he see (or hear for that matter, as she kept saying it) she doesn’t want to go!
It was like having my insides ripped out…
Then had to go to Gaylord to get phone cards & my TV dinner for tomorrow…Yeah….
I don’t get why kids Sonja’s age don’t get a choice in these matters. Poor Critters.
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they don’t care, they think YOU are filling her head with that. same with my ex. he says NOW that he could have raised her better than i did, but when i begged him to come and get her before we killed each other when she was 12, he told me he didn’t have the finances to be a single parent. of course, he was dating his now wife then, and taking care of HER baby like a real dad, instead of his owndaughter.
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