Figured it was time for an update. *EDIT*

Friday with James was good…He was babysitting his little brother so I met him at his mom’s house. We hung out there until she got back. Played wii…They will make video games out of anything it seems…Such as Jenga. *laughs* It was fun though.
Went to lunch, wandered around the mall (had to wear lunch off).
Went to Borders for coffee/ice cream. Skimmed through a Harry Potter realted book. Parts of it were funny (like where the writer more or less referred to Doby as a pet. *laughs* I’m sure Hermoine would be so imprssed with that. *smirks*).  Though I was getting a bit irrated, which was when James said it was time to put the book away. [Mainly because one question was reguarding which movie left out the most facts from the books that they should of left in…Prisoner of Azkaban wasn’t even among the two they had listed! Bloody hell! How could it not be??!  But yeah…You can see why it was time to put up the book. *laughs*]
Hung out outside a bit, until he decided Harry was probably wondering what happened to him.

It’s only a few (too many) hours till I can rescue the Critters.
I have another letter out to Friend of the Court…I’m requesting an admendment be added reguarding medical treatments. This because Harley is now being medicated against my want…Heck if it was up to Dan, it would be without my knowledge as well.
As far as Dan knows, I do not know that he took Harley to the doctor, and got a ADHD medication perscribed to him. *growls* He knows bloody well that’s not what I wanted…Not what Harley needs (escpecially since we are suppose to be working on his behaviour, not medicating him into not having any). [What it is, Dan & his hippo don’t want to have to actually deal with Harley and his behaviour/actions…They would rather medicate him into a stupor, so they don’t have to.]

So I’m waiting on that…Hoping something can get done quickly…*sigh* I hate this…
Wondering what kind of meltdown Harley is going to have this week too…The last Tuesday we had him he had a really bad emotional day…We are figuring it was what is referred to as the ‘rebound effect’, from coming off the medication…It’s a ‘less common’ sideeffect, but of course he’s going to have them.

Sonja goes to camp at the end of the week, for two weeks. I worry about Harley having to spend a week at Dan’s without her…*sigh*
When Sonja gets back from camp…The next day she has to go to her fathers…*sigh* [So it’ll be nearly three weeks without her around in a row. *sigh*]

Need to get some books…But thus far they have been elsuive to find. There is a series called Mystic Michigan…It’s a collection of strange places Michigan…I want to use them as a basis for a story I have in mind. [Plus possible Letterboxing sites…]

Camping (or that is the plan) at Whitings Park part of this week…Going to watch the fireworks from there…Though it doesn’t appear it will be in Death Note attire…I still need material for Near, finish Mello’s pants (I’m getting there)…& Matt’s costume is still…Well we have the shirt. *laughs* I have until the end of August now.

Mum came up with a good potential job for Sonja…Forensic Scientist…This thought comes from watching mutliple episodes of Bones & Sonja’s enjoyment of photographing roadkill.

I think that’s it for the moment…*wanders off*

*EDIT*
Harley came home his bouncy, usual self…Sonja says she didn’t see them give him anything…One could hope…We’ll see how things go though…I know there was a perscription written (the doctor told me that himself).
Of course, Sonja was extra bouncy herself. She’s hoping the last part of the week continues on…Apparently there was some disagreement between the ‘adults’ of the household, which led to seperate rooms…& talk of hippo & her potomouses moving out. [There wasn’t any sign of them around there today.]
*shrugs* I don’t know…I just like seeing Sonja happy & Harley acting like Harley.

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Medicating without your consent? Oh my! Someone needs to bump off The Ass and His Hippo. Geez!Hope things get better. *hugs*Light of heart,

June 28, 2009

My fiance and I watch BONES too – we have Season One and have ordered Season Two. He swears that the character of Dr. Brenner aka “Bones” has Asperger’s (the weirdness, single-mindedness, missing social queues, etc) – a high functioning end of the Autism spectrum. That could be… I don’t know, and I’m not sure if they did that intentionally or not. I’ve heard that some people with Asperger’s or even Autism can go undiagnosed, and that sometimes it’s mild enough that they only seem a little “off,” or weird, but otherwise normal. If Harley has Autism, then medication may or may not help – but if you want to see any kind of results, then it has to be REGULAR – obviously your ex doesn’t realize this. With any kind of autism, schedules are a very important aspect, and messing with that (even by giving a pill) can throw them off balance and the length of that off-balance time would also depend on the child. I’m sure you know this, but you need a Dr. to give that to you in writing so that you can produce that to the courts. Good luck with everything. *hugs*

:/ the baby bro was on ADHD meds for awhile… :/ it’s better to get the behavior under control than meds! If that can be done than meds aren’t needed! Really *shakes head* I hope Sonja gets her with about the hippo and her potomouses. 🙂 and yikes :/ 3 weeks with her gone… hopefully it passes quickly for you and Harley… though she may not want the first two too. hehe

June 28, 2009

omg how can he do that considering you have to reasonably give the meds to him or he will be worse than either unmedicated or medicated???? that is really stupid. *hugs you*

June 29, 2009

Harley is being medicated against your will? that is not on at all! Christ your ex is the biggest asshole on the planet. I miss my brothers and sisters when they are not around. I am thinking it is probably a million times harder when they are your own children 🙁 *hugs* *Maltesers* xxx

I think it should be illegal what Dan is doing, going behind your back and what not by giving Harley medicine without your knowledge. Wow. Three weeks without seeing Sonja? That’s a long time! So, Ann might be moving out, they might be separating? That would be great. *lol* *HUGS*

July 1, 2009

Grrr, he sounds like such an arse, and every time you talk about what he does it just gets worse. He needs shooting! Either that or someone should medicate him without his knowledge and see how he likes it! Take care xxx

July 1, 2009

On your Edit – sounds like that’s the first time they’ve come home happy from your ex’s. I wonder why they’re so happy about “Hippo” and your ex fighting – do they just not like her, or do they think that if they break up that you and him will get back together? If it’s the latter, then you need to set them straight that you & their dad will never get back together (uh… I’m only guessing at themoment that you don’t want to? The “talk” only works if you truly are never planning to get back together). *hugs* good luck with everything 🙂

July 1, 2009

*waves* hi!