7/8/06
With the passing of this last week, the events of last Sunday have become bittersweet. *sigh* Was great fun while there, and occuring. But now…it is past, and there is no knowledge of when another such time will occur. For a brief time, I lived. And now…now I simply exsist once more.
Tis the feeling a few of us are feeling of late. Longing for a life with even a little bit of excitement. Even our Remus is wishing for the life of a 38 year old werewolf, just for a bit of excitement. Raya, with all the trials she is set to face…and of course me. Granted, Raven does have a bit to look forward too…though a bit of not so grande stuff set in place as well.
[Just a side note from the middle of no where…I just seen the most awsome episode of Teen Titans}
*wonders if anyone realizes that’s where Raven orginally got her first name and hair color*
Anyway…back to where I was…I’m rubbish at making friends. I go all quiet and shy, and become afraid to speak for fear of sounding stupid around new people. It takes me a while to open up/warm up to people I guess. After I get to know people better, once I feel comfortable, it’s much diffrent. But it’s getting to that point. It’s just so hard for me.
To add to that…Where am I suppose to find these people? Like I’ve said before, I usually meet people through people, can’t seem to just do it on my own. There was school…In elemetary school it wasn’t so bad…it’s just as time passes, and people begin to say or do the things that begin to weigh heavy on your mind later, even without realizing it.
I’m not a bar person…I don’t feel comfortable in that setting.
Well…it seems that I have to go on kitten rescue duty…perhaps I’ll get back to this thought later….
I used to always clam up around knew people…and I guess I still do, but most people are like that to some degree. I think it helps to remember that the person you are meeting is also trying not to seem stupid and probably won’t actually notice if you say something stupid.
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*sighs* if only we could really live in rpg land, even if it would require an extra twenty years on my age, a sex change and a bite from a werewolf – I’M WILLING. ach, poo. *hugs*
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I have no advice on getting to know people because I try to avoid that. It scares me. As for the just existing thing…I know just how you feel.
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*swats hard* You are NOT just existing! You have wonderful friends, children to take care of, writing, which you love to do. That’s not existing. You may not have romance in your life, but at least you’re living, breathing, and surrounded by love of friends and family. As for RPG, *points* let’s see…I need a werewolf bite, too, a child, and an abusive boyfriend. Eep! *laughs*
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I’m shy around guys, but meeting new people is easy. I just walk up and say hey how’s it goin? Now if it’s a hot guy, I just hide from him lol. Not that he’d notice me anyways.. I’m fat and ugly.
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I might. It sounds promising.
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you should… i dunno i m rubbish at making friends which is clear from the fact i can rarely keep a hold of them for very long gorsh nina’s life is boring, be glad raven isnt as boring as nina xxx
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…. er… i did have something to say… i swear i bloody did… *wanders off*
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I am in the same spot…it’s hard but not unliveable! I do wish for an ‘od party’ though! *hugs* well we are friends w/each other! I am here if you need me! 🙂
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