Answering the Questions from last entry

As asked by: Wild Cherry (aka Raya…aka The Smut Lord)

1. Friends : What’s the most important thing for a friendship to have? Acceptance…It’s important for a friend to be able to accept you for who and what you are, even if they may not always agree. You understand that is just part of who the other person is, and know that if you tried to change it, then you’d be trying to change who the person essential is.

*2. Sex : What’s your favourite position? (As the Smut Lord, it’s my favorite question for this catagory. Hehe.) Actually, I think this would have to be one of those things that depended on my mood. Being on top is good for being able to control things a bit better. But sometimes, there can be a certain closeness in the Missionary postion, giving up a lot of ones control, and knowing you can trust that person to be careful enough not to squash you. *laughs*

*3. Music : Who’s your favorite band? You know…I’m not really sure…it all depends on how I’m feeling. Up there would have to be: Bare Naked Ladies, Greenday, Three Doors Down.

4. Books : What’s the best book you ever read? I’m not sure…I like several for several diffrent reasons. I’d expand apon that, but my brain is asleep. *pokes at it with stick*

5. Love : What does "Love" mean to you? Love kind of goes with what I said about friendship. It’s caring about one enough to accept a person for who they are, and not wanting to change them, but seeing that the things that aren’t perfect about them, is what makes them them. And Caring enough to want to be there for someone, and do whatever is in your power to make their life at least a little better.

6. Bloopers : Are you a real-life prankster, like Raven? I do wish *laughs* In years when I had potential targets, I didn’t have the nerve…Now that I think I could manage the nerve…I don’t have any potential targets. Perhaps I should target the Critters…hehehe.

7. Significant other: What’s your opinion of a perfect man? First off…there’s no such thing…but for the sake of answering the question…*laughs* He would be someone who cared enough to want to try to understand all the things that make me me, and accept me for who I am. He would understand that I needed to be aloud to be myself, and not want to make me something else. He’d be there when I needed him, but know when to make himself scarce, understanding that

8. Kids : Why did you name the Critters as such? Harley, the poor boy, named after the Motorcycle. *laughs* His middle names: Daniel is for the pet, and Jacob is for a friend of the pet’s (and Ken’s) who died in a snowmobile accident (ironicly the same night Sonja was made…). Sonja, who is actualy Sonja Scarlette, is name for the movie character Red (Scarlet) Sonja. And we spell Scarlette that was instead of Scarlet, so it’s similar to my mum’s name of Charlotte. Dominic is the only one I don’t have an explanation for as for his first name (only that we-me and several friends- went though about a million ideas…hey we had to do something during classes). And his middle name is Michael, for his father.

9. Past : What is your best childhood memory? *tries to remember* Bloody hell…you know how long ago that was? *laughs* I think it would have to be a collection of them from the time I spent at my grandparent’s house with my cousins…There were so many moments that just seemed magical then, and looking back at them, I can almost still feel what it was like. Gods…I miss those times.

I remeber just playing in the fields out behind/beside my grandparent’s house, eating the wild strawberries, and grapes…hunting/catching frogs & tadpoles, sometimes wading in water anywhere from our ankles to nearly our waists on occasion I think. In the winter (yes, I use to go out in the snow and cold *laughs*) we’d find places in the woods where it had been really wet (like our frog hunting spots) and it would all ice over, and we’d ‘skate’ between the trees.

10. Any random question of your choice : (Of course, it has to be sexual, or I wouldn’t be the best Smut Lord. *grins*) So, if you desired to have a threesome in real life, which two men would you choose? Are we talking men I have actual access to…I can’t think of two. Now if we’re going to go by any man now in exsistence…Ooo…the choices. *laughs* Definitely would have to have Alan Rickman in there…and…hmmm… 

As asked by: Lost Biscuit

1 – what qualities do you look for in a friend Like what I said to Raya, acceptance is a big thing. Because if someone can’t accept you for who you are then they aren’t going to really be the friend they should be. Honesty is right up there, because if you’re lying to you friend, it’s going to damage the friendship. A good (and usual a bit warped) sense of humour is always nice to have present, as you need to be able to laugh and have fun together.

2 – were you scared??? – or is it just me… This one is complicated…I was ‘damaged’ mentally twords the whole thing before hand…and the results of the inital happenings were not a good thing…but that is all due to circumstances that I hope you never have to worry about.
Aside from that…I think it’s natural to be scared, and nervous…And with each new person I was with, I still felt that way, because you never know how things are going to go, and what kind of lover (tender, rough,good, bad. etc.) the person is going to be. The man thing is, is finding someone you trust enough to share this part of your self with.

*3 – fave song as raya took band lol Again I have such trouble deciding…I vary from day to day, moment to moment. Tops on the list would have to be: Face to Face, Shadow Games, Someday, Kryptonite.

4 – fave hp book mwahahaha Keeping in mind I’ve only read each of them one…I know sacrilage and all. *laughs* Despite the ending *growls at Rowling* I’m going to have to got with Half-Blood Prince…since we get all these loverly bits and pieces of Severus give to us. *hugs Severus tightly*

5 – who/what do you love more than jaffas? Well I suppose I should put the Critters on that list. *laughs* And my Mum…and my friends…and me rat Peter (as I love him enough to share my Jaffa’s with him)…and of course Alan Rickman…I’d chose him over Jaffas.

6 – … whats a bloop diary? I think it’s more or less like Open Diary…a place to leave your thoughts.

7 – if alan rickman proposed would you invite me to wedding? Well of course! *laughs* You know…I get the feeling that would be one really insane wedding. *laughs*

8 – what are the critters

fave food? Well they both are a fan of Chicken Nuggets…Sonja also likes pepperoni/ham/pineapple pizza…Harley…he’s the hard one…I never know if he’s going to want anything to do with food…but he likes hotdogs (cold ones).

*9 – bleurgh i m mean – biggest regret At this point I’d have to say…saying yes when the pet asked me to marry him (and then following through with it) as at the time he asked I kept thinking ‘I’m not ready for this. I don’t want this, it’s too soon in the relationship’. But I didn’t want to hurt him…and now…*sigh* Blah…

10 – *stares at smut lord*.. *falls over laughing* I know….isn’t she just…well…her. *laughs* 

As asked by: Blue2

1. You had to choose between saving one of your two best friends. No way to save both.. How would you choose? I guess that would mean I’d have to save Raya…she’s my sister of the heart after all…Poor other person…I’ll send flowers.

2. Favorite position? *see above (under Wild Cherry)

3. What’s your favorite song? *see above (under Lost Biscuit)

4. Who is your favorite author who is NOT JR Rowlings or whoever it is who writes HP. Margret Weis & Tracy Hickman…the co-writers of the Original DragonLance trilogy…Also like Tanith Lee, R.L.Stein (even if it’s ‘kids’ books)…Whoever wrote The Secret Circle and The Vampire Diaries (I’m just too lazy to go look it up right now).

5. Describe how true love makes YOU feel. I’m guessing loved. *laughs* It’s been quite a while, if ever, so I’m really not sure anymore.

6. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done? I’m actually rather tame…So I guess it would have to be, dressing up all in black, sneaking through the graveyard, climbing the fence, and attempting to sneak into the carnival that was going on on the other side of the fence…Trouble is, the third person I was with was too cowardly to climb the fence. *pouts* It was a bloody chain length fence! Those things are easy to climb. *sigh*

7. If you could make the pet disappear, would you? Yes.

8. If you got divorced and remarried, would you want more kids? Nope. I’m all done having kids.

9. What’s the one thing you regret the most? *see above (under Lost Biscuit)

10. If you could live back in the day of ancient Rome, would you? I’m not sure…Never gave much thought to Ancient Rome visits…At least I wouldn’t have to worry about being fed to the lions. *laughs* 

As asked by: Forever Jack

1. Friends : Have you done or said anything to a friend that you regrate and If you could say something to that person what would yo usay? I regret getting into a really inappropriate relationship with a friend…it messed us up, and it messed me and my boyfriend at the time up.

2. Sex : Top or Bottom *see above (under Wild Cherry)

3. Music : What was your favorite band when you were 16? 16? Bloody hell…that was…*thinks*…Ages ago…But I’m thinking I’d have to say Poison…or maybe that was closer to 15…maybe 14…Ug. *headdesk*

4. Books : Whats is one book you would recomend Alan Rickman to Read? Books? Reading? I’m close enough to speak with Alan Rickman…and you think my mind is going to be on books?

5. Love : Whats one thing about Love that you learned? It’s a very complicated thing, and sometimes what you think is love isn’t, and what you are positive isn’t, just might be.

6. Bloopers : What was the funiest blooper you saw? I really can’t recall off hand…though I did use to watch the show that Dick Clark and Ed McMahn had about the Bloopers when it was on.

7. Significant Other : if you could choose all over again who would you choose? Not the pet, that’s for bloody sure. I don’t think out of anyone I actually know I’d want. Can I have Alan Rickman…Rima doesn’t need him, really.

8. Kids : What is one advicde you would give to your kids? You know…that’s a good question…and sooner or later, I’m going to have to think about that. *laughs* Actually, I think just to be themselves, some people won’t accept them, but those aren’t the kind of friends one really wants anyway.

9. Past : One thing that you would like to take back? How about the ‘I do’ at my wedding…I should of ran off the other direction…Gods I did think about it…should of been the first clue right there…or the second one anyway.

10. Any random question of your choice : If you had to choose some were to live Araba or Alaska? Alaska, it’s got the wild’s like Michigan, and I love my trees and nature. Not thrilled with the snow and all…but that’s what summer is for.