lol no catchy title

 okay so it’s been a bumpy few weeks…not so much for me but surrounding family and friends…. some of it affects me, but not to the point of where i’m worried..

let’s start with easter weekend… malachai went thursday night to stay with her uncle cory and her aunt lindsay… mark’s brother and sister-in-law.. she had a blast thursday night, then friday they came back into town to meet with lindsay’s sister and to come see us at our yardsale… then their plans were to pick up lindsay’s paycheck and go get eggs to color. well on their way to get her paycheck, they get pulled over… apparently the sheriff’s department was doing random pull overs and running id’s… they weren’t the only car that got pulled over. so of course, they have both been in trouble in the past, and they both have fines…they should have been paying on… so they get arrested… lindsay knew as soon as they got pulled over that it wasn’t good, and called her mom to come get their two kids and malachai… so on easter weekend, they had to be in jail.. their kids didn’t get to hunt eggs with their mom & dad, they had to do it with their gma… which at least they have her…but point being is they could have let them out on friday on 10% bond, and they wouldn’t… they made them wait until monday, when the judge let them both out on 10%… cory said he was amazed with malachai, that she took the situation so well, telling her cousins that it would be alright and that things would get fixed, just being an adult in a situation that they shouldn’t have had to be in. Cory & Lindsay have been doing so well. they moved out of this town to get away from the negative people, the ones who they couldn’t trust anymore to let them live the good life with their kids. they are both working, the kids are healthy and so are they. this time two years ago, malachai wouldn’t have been going with them… they have bettered themselves that much, to where i feel safe with her being with them. she is supposed to go tomorrow night after we get back from the birthday party we have to go to tomorrow… so far so good with them now… there is more on lindsay’s court issues but i’ll go into that later. she is supposed to update me on it today when she comes by for a visit. 

so now onto the boys… caeleb and jaron… i don’t have them as kids ne more… their mom lost her job on tuesday… so it was a bad easter for her too…not just because she lost her job…that was the aftermath of the weekend… so she was down in another state visiting her parents and family… and jaron climbed up on her nephews top bunk, fell off and broke his arm… right above the growth plate…so now he has pins in two places… so he was in the hospital, and she called her work, told them that she wouldn’t be able to be at work on monday because the hospital wouldn’t release him until monday afternoon…not that they wanted to release him….she had to make arrangements with children’s hospital here in ohio to see him before they would release him… so she went through all that drove all night monday night to get back here, drops the boys off and goes to work…she walks in, and they fire her for missing too many days for her kids being sick… but then they tell her to re-apply in 6 to 8 months… which is kinda funny…considering she is pregnant with her third child and she is due in august… so she came here crying and we sat down and figured things out. i had her apply for unemployment and put her student loans in deferment… and job hunted a bit. but she is in her second trimester, i highly doubt anyone will hire her currently in her profession. so i’m now down to three kids for my daycare at this point…. which is manageable financially…but still would rather have my 6 kids back lol…

in the middle of helping jami do all that stuff, i get a text from michelle…carson’s mom… she tells me that the college changed her requirements for her degree and the classes that she was enrolled in were dropped from the curriculum… two weeks into the quarter.. so she had to drop all her classes but one… because her gi bill won’t pay for the classes unless they are part of her degree requirements… so the 5 hours she has class each week, her husband is going to keep carson… so now i’m down to 2 kiddos… which is still manageable…but again i’d rather have the 6 kiddos

the only good thing i’m seeing about being down to the two kiddos..is that i get more one on one time with them and i actually have time to keep the house picked up so mom doesn’t have to come home and do it all…although yesterday she came home and found something to do lol…i swear she  can’t sit still and do nothing… 

that really didn’t take all that long to type out lol… oh yeah one more thing that happened the other day… mark’s wife’s mom…. friended me on facebook…and messaged me telling me how beautiful the wedding slide show was and that i did such a great job… then she asked me if i could get her copies of the pictures of the family lol… so of course being the nice person i am, i said of course… i just wonder what mark’s wife thinks about it… 

so today i’m just hanging out with hunter and autumn… hunter is fighting a nap, and everytime autumn gets to sleep he decides to scream and she wakes up… hunter was up at like 530 this morning getting ready to get here… they live like an hour away from here…fridays are the only early days they have though….

anyway i’m going to get off of here and try to get him to nap… then i have to figure out what we are doing for lunch… 

and just because it popped in my head… brittany is having her knee surgery today… on friday the 13th lol….