The Cure

They focus too much on the action; they want to fix the action, but the action isn’t the problem.
The cause is the problem.
You have to fix the cause before you can fix the action. Or rather, if you fix the cause, you fix the action.

I guess they haven’t figured that one out yet.

just remember what you said in your entry. you cant fix the action. it cannot disappear. in order for the action to cease is to fix the problem that causes the action. so if you truly want to give up cutting. you’ve got to give up what is causing the cutting. that doesnt mean the razor. that means whatever it is that has you tied down inside. you cant like to the professionals and expect

the cutting to stop, because it wont stop unless you face the problem, talk about the problem, and get help getting rid of the problem…that’ll stop causing the cutting