2014

 I definitely need to come back here and start to write more.. I had seen that someone else had mandated that they wanted at least one entry per week in the New Year.. While I doubt I could keep up that rate, I’d be happy enough with one per month!! LOL.. But, seriously…
 
 I think this year will be much calmer than last.. Not that last was BAD by any stretch.. Just the very first week of it, which led to what I talked about in my last entry.. Thus far, everything seems calm.. She has made no effort to speak to me in almost 9 months. While I do miss her, in some aspect, and also while I hope she is doing well, I know I need to move past what she did to me..
 
 I heard from a male friend of mine.. Not a huge deal, but me and him have been through it. He lied. To my face. Several times over. Lied to me about what he was doing.. Even when I called him out on his bs lies, he denied it.. The short story is this.. He called me / texted me and asked if I would drive him to his new job.. He was an hour plus away from me, has a wife and two kids.. The last time I went there, his wife was screaming at me in the parking lot, "You’re talking him to see his GIRLFRIEND!!!!" at the time, I had no idea..
 
 Turns out, she was right.
 
 He texted me a few weeks later asking if I could take him to his ‘new’ job at ‘such and such store.’ When I responded and told him that I couldn’t make it, he replied a while later saying it was fine, he had gotten there.
 
 So I decided to call the store in question.
 
 He didn’t work there, and had never.
 
 When I called him out on that, rather than ADMITTING, he was like, "Who did you talk to? Sally? Jon? Frank?" I’m like "really?’
 
 NOW.. over a year plus later, when he texts asking if we could hang out again, I say, I still don’t know what you were really doing? Obviously, I knew he was cheating..
 
 When he admitted it, I didn’t feel any better towards the situation..
 
 Anyways.. back to work today for me.. Should’ve gone yesterday, but my stomach was in rebel mode.. Feeling better today, so in I go!