Scared
Mm so Paul came home from lunch today and was really quiet, i gave him a hug and asked him what was wrong, after a bit of persuasion he finally told me that he had his assessment today and they told him that they’re going to get another trainee next year when his is up.
He loves that job. He’s upset.
I was texting him, and he’s just told him he’s going interstate. I said i don’t want to leave, so he’s going without me.
I’m so upset.. I thought i meant more to him.. I thought what we had was real. How can he just decide to break up with me like that. I can’t be with him knowing that he’s leaving me in a few months time.
I don’t want to leave. I CANT leave.. It’d be too hard.. I’m too close to my family.. I don’t want to!
I don’t know what to do.. How can he so simply say that he’s packing up and leaving without me. He’s told me it’s over if im not going. What am i supposed to do.. I don’t want to choose between him and my family.
Guess it’s over.
Wow, tough choice. But if he’s so willing to go and just leave you, then maybe you’re better off without him!
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This is a very tough situation. It is possible that right now he’s upset and hurt – he may decide not to leave once he is feeling better about things. I say the best idea is to sit down and talk things through – if he does care for you then he should be reasonable about you not wanting to leave everything behind.
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And NEVER have important conversations through text message – ugh! Sms is the bane of clear communication!
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that is such a horrible decision to have to make. But if he’s not willing to compromise then maybe you’re better off without him, especially if he seems to find it so easy to get up and go without you. But it will be tough. Hope it all works out x
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