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I almost deleted my diary totally over the weekend, but I was convinced not to. I don’t write in here very often anymore, but I’m sure it’ll be a whole lot less now. I will still come and read and note all of my friends, but please don’t expect any entries of substance from me for quite some time….if ever.

Mike hacked again and got into my diary on Friday. I suspected he was before then, but wasn’t positive. So, Anna and I came up with a planted entry that I left on private. It was one that I knew he’d not be able to react to so there would be no doubt whatsoever in my mind that he was or wasn’t. He found it Friday and verified my suspicions.

The last time this happened, I gave him one more chance and if it happened again, we were over. I’m leaving this entry public, it doesn’t do any good for me to have public or private or favorites only entries anyway. You can leave me a private note if you wish though.

Please take care of yourselves. I love you all!

Wow. Thats sad. I’m sorry you’ve had to put up with such total disrespect from someone who is supposed to love you. *hugs*

Loser.

July 26, 2011

Hey there, long time no see. I just returned after being AWOL for about a year and a half. Sad to hear your diary is coming to a close. I’d feel pretty violated if that happened to me so I understand your decision. We’re all entitled to a bit of privacy as human beings… I know I couldn’t live like that. I wish you all the best. <3

fortunes_fool_21

NOT COOL! Nothing puts someone at more unease then not trusting thier partner. Im sorry you have to deal with this. Find me on facebook or email one day to catch up

Violet

oh, geez. That sucks. I hope you don’t delete it. There may come a day when you’ll wish you didn’t. Hang in there.

Girl-Interrupted

🙁 Oh, man. That stinks. I’m so sorry about that. Everyone should have a safe place to sort through their thoughts. I know breaking the trust is very hard to get over. I agree with others. Don’t delete. I did that once long ago and I regret it regularly.

Oh boy! I’m sorry your trust was violated. Anna of SKOAC? She doesn’t post in her diary anymore, as you know.

s.q.u.e.a.k

I’m so sad I really hope you do come back. I love reading your entries *hugs*

I’m so sorry to read that this has happened. *hugs*

LadyFoxMcCloud

Oh suck! Sorry that is happening.

Gypsy Spirit

couldn’t you simply have changed your password? Or do that and then start a new diary under a new name? He must be incredably sneaky and a major computer know to get passed that. So sorry you’ve had to deal with such horrible intrusion…..its unbelievable how far some people will go to feed their insecurities. I do hope you don’t leave us here, but if you do…all the very best, always. hugs P

Tornado

July 27, 2011

I hope you don’t decide to leave entirely. I know how you feel. Don was able to get into my FB after I forgot to close it on his laptop. He read some things he didn’t like in my messages. However, he knew they were true and made some changes. However, he won’t have anything to do with FB anymore. It’s too bad Mike didn’t take you serious enough to know you weren’t bluffing !!

Silverkitty

Just what does he think you’re doing in your diary anyway? I’m sorry he’s so paranoid about you… (huggles)

scrpbookr

This is hard. It seems like a lot of secrets and sneaking. Why not just let him read your diary if he wants to. Maybe the openess on your end and the lack of having to sneak on his end will be good for your relationship.

Hello this is Mike, I am the offender in this case and I did everything she has stated. What I did was wrong, because of my own insicurites(sp)and not respecting her need for privacy I did hack into her account. She had tried to explain to me why she needed her privacy but I did not listen. I had always just thought “You can see anything I have/own/type, why do you need to hide stuff?”… More.

Mike continued… I was not LISTENING to what my wife was telling me and why she needed her own space. What I did was 1000% wrong. I DO LOVE MY WIFE, but what I have done was not loving and has broken down our trust. I hope to build this back over time and show her she can trust me again. I deserve anything any one says about how bad I am for this. I am very, very, very sorry M.

More Mike… I am just hoping the damage I did can be fixed, it’s a lot. I don’t want or expect sympithy or pitty. I do want to express my thanks to all of her friend on here for being a outlet for her and try to publicy appoligize to my wife for what I have done. I hope to have the chance to show her I do love her. I will understand if she can’t or won’t take that chance. I do love you M

If anyone wants to lay into me or anything via e-mail my e-mail is kc_fan@hotmail.com. I do want my wife to keep this diary and I will not be visiting it even to read public entries after this point. I know it is just words right now M…. I WILL follow through with my actions too. I am sorry I didn’t trust you M. Mike