Mean noter in my last entry

Yep I had another one. That makes maybe three mean notes since I started my diary.

Here is what they said:

“You are very old and ugly why would someone mary you bitch”

You know, I have often wondered that myself.

To tell you the truth, I think DH only married me because I am weird. HA HA.

Actually, I have been feeling better about myself. Yes, I am one of those people with pretty low self esteem. I had always been heavy in school and you know how cruel kids can be.

Even when I was a size 13 I thought I was fat. By “Fashion” standards I am sure I was considered fat but actually I wasn’t. I was one hot chickie. How could I ever have thought I was fat?

After I got married, well actually when I moved to SC in 1995 I gained a lot of weight and jumped to 218 on my wedding day. That is how I know DH loves me. He still married me!

My weight went up and down and up and down so many times… Just before I got pregnant I was working hard at loosing weight. I had been 246.5 wearing a size 22 and had worked my way down to 214 and a size 18 was getting big. I did this in just less than a year. Slow going but it was staying off… Then I got pregnant. LOL But the good news is I am still not up to my pre-weight loss weight. Last week’s doc appointment I was 231. I think I am going to come out of this pregnancy thinner than I went into it.

And you know what, If I could get into a size 14 again I would be nice but it is not important to me anymore. Yes I am going to work on getting thinner but my family is more important to me. I have a husband who loves me for who I am and not my size and I will have a very beautiful baby in my arms.

As for the noter’s comment about me being a b*tch – I am not of the canine species for one… and two my pregnancy hormones make me cry more than any other emotion. Although I did get frustrated at the contact paper I was trying to put in a dresser drawer the other day. It kept sticking to itself and not in the drawer so I screamed, crumpled it up and threw it across the room. The contact paper – not the drawer.

33 days until Autumn is here! WOOT!

First entry for today – time for me to take a nap… lol

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wow! i cant believe that someone who say such a thing. if u weigh 131 at the age of 39…shoot….thats skinny especially after having kids. my mom weighs in the 150’s and she had 6 kids. she wants to lose weight so badly but cheats on her “diet” with lil things. ppl are so judgemental these days. i am only 19 i weigh somewhere between 115 and 120…and i am fine with that. i am 5’1 so that makes

screw mean noters…they suck!!! i’ve only looked at your picture on your front page (although i’m about to go back and look at the other ones) and you look very pretty to me. ; )

me just around average i think…not really sure. i have never cared. when i was really sick and in the hospital over a year ago…i weighed 100 lbs and was disgusted with myself for getting sick and losing weight. but i did have lots of problems so it wasnt my fault. i would much rather weight ur weight or mine..then weight 100 lbs again. its nasty! dont get down from other ppl. they’re pathetic

April 7, 2004

that person is the bytch not you and your not ugly they are because their heart is cold who cares what size you are if you are happy that is all that matters i’m a size 6 and i am not happy the person is stupid

and out there to make us feel bad. like u said, ur husbadn loves YOU for YOU. and thats awesome. great guy i am sure. its not about looks n e more…its love. take care. and too that jerk that said that…f off. thats bs. kristin

April 7, 2004

you know the idiots that leave those type of notes are just so damn jealous that it is sickening. You have accomplished a lot in your life and don’t let anyone ever tell you otherwise. I wish the best for you and your new addition. Your husband has to be a great guy. Take care. Hugs.

I am reporting that mean noter. You shouldn’t have to receive notes like that. Unfortunately, I didn’t have time to go through all your entries for the previous 2. I only just stumbled onto your diary today. You are not fat, ugly, or whatever. I have always been underweight because I have trouble eating. However, I don’t care much about physical appearance.

To me, personality takes priority over all other traits. If people have a good personality, then that’s good enough for me. Your husband really loves you for who you are. That is true love. We look forward to Autumn’s birth.

Why is it most mean anonymous note leavers are illiterate? Its only ever the shallow ones who think a persons weight is the be all and end all of who they are.. and really, who gives a toss at what shallow people think? 🙂 Myst(nsi)

April 7, 2004

it’s sad how people that leave notes like that don’t have the guts to leave their name =

bah

April 7, 2004

I don’t get rude noters like that. If ya don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it. I’m glad you were able to find some humor in it nonetheless. I think most of us have have degree of low self esteem. Good Luck w/ everything! Yes, all that matters is that DH loves you. HUGS

Girl, I have seen you in person and you are far from ugly or fat! You are so cute. Whoever wrote that probably just wanted to cause drama. They probably have never even seen your picture. *hugs* don’t worry about them. And as far as how many notes you have gotten, I have gotten about 100 so far. lmao

I’m not quite sure what makes people leave nasty notes. What is the point? If you feel you don’t like that person for whatever reason, stop reading their diary! I think you look great in your photos. Ignore the note leaver.

read this one first, then went back thru to catch up. Simply put…screw the mean noters. Yup, that’s what I think. I think you’re great just the way you are. I can so relate to the weight problem thing. And I can really understand the low self esteem thing, too. I’ve had/got both. Hope the rest of your day is a great one!!

Hey! Nobody talks to my big sister that way! I think you’re gorgeous, dah-ling. 😀

you DO NOT have to explain yourself to an asshole!

April 7, 2004

What an Asshole with a capital A… Hon you are beautiful the way you are and your hubby loves you! so to hell with whoever wrote that…you know there is always a bad apple around to spoil things…but try not to let it get you down. I know that is easier said than done…but you’ve got that beautiful baby to look forward to!!! {{{hugs}}}

April 7, 2004

I don’t understand people. If you can’t say something nice don’t say any thing at all. We are all here to up lift eachother and try to help eachother be better people, not rip eachother apart. I have had some negative things said about how we handle our oldest, but if you don’t know the whole history you don’t understand. Blessings to you.

April 7, 2004

stupid people!!!! You are beautiful!

April 7, 2004

why do people go around leaving notes like that? grrrr. But this is a good reply to a nasty note. don’t let it get to you. We will survive with our big booties.heh. Kisses

April 7, 2004

They’re probs some wacko 16 yr old who obviously can’t spell and has no life of their own so they try to stir up the shit elsewhere.

April 7, 2004

I dont understand people likr that. It makes me so mad. You are beautiful. 🙂

April 7, 2004

You looked beautiful in the pics you posted…it’s pathetic that some people need to insult others just because they have nothing better to do with their free time. *sigh*

April 7, 2004

Just keep in mind, it doesn’t matter what a thirteen year old little prick said……you are beautiful and your happiness radiates/glows from that picture. Screw them…..love the name you have picked out for the baby! Congratulations to you and your hubby!

April 7, 2004

*HUGS* It sounds like you took that very well. You are beautiful and you have such a good heart! What else could you ask for? *kicks stupid noter* And they’ve obviously never been pregnant… It takes everything in me to keep from throwing Rocky across the room sometimes! Hahah, I’m mostly kidding… 😉

ignore jerks!

April 7, 2004

i think the NOTER had self esteem problems. @@ {{}}} 🙂 ~ajaye

April 7, 2004

Here’s my advice, take off the option to leave unsigned notes in your diary. I had a horrible note once but it was signed, I complained and had this nasty little girl removed from OD. You should know that most of these are random and done by moody teenagers and you should NEVER take what they say personally. Ok I’m done now 🙂 xxx

April 7, 2004

Some people need to get a life! I got an anon mean neat the other day too. My first one. Probably someone who is just jealous of us gorgeous pregnant women! 🙂 Mine said I looked old for my age, OUCH!!

April 7, 2004

I’ll kick that noter’s ass if I ever find out who he/she is. Dangnabbit, I missed your shower! (Kicks my own ass)

argh that pisses me off. i think you are totally beautiful. size is a stupid thing to judge beauty on. you are one of the kindest ppl i know. ppl are just stupid.

It’s not so much how much you weigh, but you how you look. Some people look cute with a little fat attached and would look ugly if they were skinny. It’s true.

April 7, 2004

You are a swetheart. Who gives a damn about what some little child wrote. We all still love you.

April 7, 2004

You are not old either! I think that I left a note on a different entry. As for my camera ~ Dick didn’t say a word. But that is not unusual for him. I guess he does not realize how much that camera means to me. I am just sick. He should know because his mother was a picture freak too.

April 7, 2004

One BIG piece of advice: You’re going to get a lot of people who think they can make comments about everything from your weight to your skin to your baby’s care as though they knew better how to mommy Autumn than you do. So the advice? Learn to smile and say “Oh? Hmm.” very thoughtfully, then turn resolutely to paying attention to something/someone else. It does wonders 🙂

April 7, 2004

1. They’re the bitch, not you. 2. You’re not old. 🙂 3. You are definitely NOT ugly! 4. You must be pretty self-confident to feel comfortable enough to put your weight on here. 🙂 Everyone should feel good about themselves. 🙂

April 7, 2004

I hate mean people.. I put you on my favorites.. I think you are an interesting person and its always fun watching someone go through a pregnancy.. I hope that didn’t sound to odd.. 😀

May 9, 2004

I think you look very beautiful the way you are! (just found ur diary and skimming thru) take care and good luck with the baby 🙂