Thank You Readers
Dear Diary,
Thanks to all my readers for such good advice. I am taking it too! I do miss him but it is his path to figure out and learn that we all need to listen and learn from our elders.
We need family to nurture and support our relationships and they just haven’t learned that yet.
I don’t wish ill on DIL but I don’t want anything to do with her. If I must, I will be courtious and congenial but there isn’t a feeling of family there.
My biggest concern is children…I don’t think she is the child friendly type. She did mention that my son would stay home and care for the children while she works…hmmm a little control there?
I will just sit and wait…well not exactly sit but will wait.
Thank you again readers…you have been very helpful. Life sure presents some trials…
LYB
Peace
All you can do it treat her with respect and courtesy and bide your time.
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I agree with Happy Trails. I would just try to communicate with him just as you always have. If things go awry, he will know you tried as much as possible.
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Well, our dear friends said what I wanted to say. Please, keep on smiling! Your smile is so beautiful and attractive. RYN: Thanks a lot! Just a very short while. Have a great night!
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Thanks for the note…Years ago I did an entry on how I make coffee… it is not a “modern normal” way. I use an an old drip pot with lots of quirks. That just inspired me I’ll do an entry just for you with pictures! Will try to do it this afternoon…..
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“not the “marrying” type.” could be,.. it’s never been a high priority,..o.0
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“A pet maybe?” people have pets because while love can’t be bought,loyalty can, and for many they cannot tell the difference,..o.o
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“aspects of the self ” true, and in this i misfit in society, for seldom does one hear from me,labels for myself, even though i’ve found little that i cannot do,.. ego?, perhaps, confidence in my abilities,.. yes,… but the basic need to grow and create is my drive,..o.o the difference?, my loyalty must be earned and maintained,…not an easy task i find,…o.o
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“love just isn’t a word ” no it’s a lifeforce, and as such not subject to the mores and rules of society,..
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I’ll need to read back…if I haven’t read it already. I know that your DIL isn’t that nice from the wedding entry.
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(((HUGS))) to you. yeah that would be rough. I understand you wanting to give him space so he doesn’t think you are nagging and bugging him, BUT don’t do it so much that he thinks you’ve turned your back. As the one noter said, at least he will know you tried. Never say anything negative about her to him, should you ever get a moment alone with him. And as your first noter says, even though it ishard.
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