Almost wrote it again.
I also stopped being such a bitch about, like in a situation where Im asking someone if they have a boyfriend or something, usually Ill say something like Im not hitting on you, dont worry about that, Im just wondering but I think now: fuck it.
Add a little mystery. Maybe even a little repulsion (for them). But I dont think Im ugly. And if you do?
I wont be embarrassed about it, anymore.