The calm.
The hardest lesson is that sadness is not permanent. If I go long enough without a bout of sadness, I just can’t appreciate things as much. As the phrase, sometimes I just miss the comfort in being sad – even if I hate every minute.
And then the moment I feel myself coming out of it. Every time, it’s like Rocky entering the sixteenth round. Head full of sweat and determination not only to last One More Round, but to go for the knockout as in Rocky II.
Sadness reminds me of what I don’t want.
Which then reminds me of what I DO want.
And if I were happy constantly, why would there ever be a reason to question? It’s a burden to deal with a constantly running interior monologue, but I must deal with it as a blessing of intellect, not a curse of the aware.
I can feel the Aura rising again, like I haven’t felt in years. I know it’s partly from telling Elissa about the way I used to be. But I have the kind of confidence I just didn’t have in those days. And if I have no alternative but to succeed, I summon the strength to do so.
It’s why I tend to have such shitty days off. There’s no imperative at all to do anything.
I can feel it coming back again, like a roll of thunder chasing the wind. (Name that song.) And like a thousand other commanders on a thousand other battlefields, I wait for the dawn.
Can’t enjoy the flowers without having the rain. Glad to see someone who can appreciate both the lows and the highs. And that would be Pearl Jam’s “I Can Feel It Coming Back Again”. (I love old school rock lol)
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Know the feeling. I had the best summer of my life with the best friends and then finished college for good and moved home for until I start a job else where. I guess I’m sad because after 6 years of being in college, it’s over and I’ll never live that life style ever again. I know when I make friends in my new city, things will start looking up and I’ll really be able to appreciate it.
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🙂
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Live – Lightning Crashes 🙂
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Often, we do have this lingering/prolonged eye contact. Things are just different between us than any of my other guy friends. None of them get so up and personal with me. Maybe one day our paths will cross again… *sigh*
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What do you mean by the direct approach? Tell him? If so, not yet. Our seeing each other every day got interrupted when both of us had to move home for a few months. I feel like things would have fallen into place if grad school hadn’t of ended. Things seemed like they could have potentially headed that way before we both moved.
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