Mishap

Sharon is mad at me right now.

I got home from work today and the baby was sleeping on top of Sharon. I decided to get on the internet and check OD and email and stuff like that. I’ve been feeling really horny lately and Sharon and I haven’t been having as much sex as I’d like so I ended up finding a good story site and started masturbating.

Sharon walked in and caught me and now she won’t talk to me. As I’m typing, she just left. I don’t know where to, she didn’t say anything.

I don’t know why she’s mad. We both know that the other masturbated before we were married. Sharon does it once in a great while still. I haven’t had the chance or really the inclination to in I can’t tell you how long. I can’t even remember the last time I masturbated.

It’s just so frustrating because I don’t know if she’s mad that I was doing it or that I wasn’t letting her know that I was doing it. Would it have been ok if I had said” Honey, I’m going to jack off now. I’ll see you in a few minutes.”

I have to take care of the baby now.

It is all natural. To me anyway. I think part of is it that she is young, not “used” to being in a live in situation w a guy. My husband masturbates quite a bit. I don’t mind. He also looks at the net for “inspiration” I always say that as long as he would want to have sex with me more then he wants to masturbate, it is all fine- In the beginning of our relationship when we couldn’t get enough of

each other, he didn’t masturbate at all (we are very open about it, and he tells me if he has masturbated at times and stuff). When I gave birth to our two kids, and there was loooong periods of no sex, masturbation was his option. We have also masturbated together several times (which is real fun, and a good way of getting to know what makes the other person tick). I am very confident in myself,

and know that he loves e and my body (extra pounds from pregnancy and all), and am not intimidated by who he looks at. I know that he will take me over any of them any time, lol!

PS! I am also european 8scandinavian actually), and that might be part of my openess around this. I learned from living in the states and from talking to my american husband, that there are way more uptightness when it comes to sex then here…

Meginsanity

January 31, 2005

Awww. Maybe she was just embarassed to walk in on you doing that. Maybe you guys should sit down and have a talk about sexuality and stuff. I know I wouldn’t have a problem with it, but that’s because we’ve talked about things like that and it’s all in the open. Good luck!

she has to know that you do it. I don’t see what the big deal is unless she isn’t getting any.

What I do when Jerimy is masturbating (which I love) and I catch him, I just pull his hands away and do it for him. Ta-da, ‘problem’ solved.

I’m not sure how I’d feel in her shoes. I know Andy does still masturbate sometimes, but I’ve never seen him do it. I think he must do it in the shower, and I’m already at work by then. I honestly haven’t since we’ve been living together, but I figure that he’s in the mood so much more than I am that it’s selfish to use it up by myself.