QUESTION FOR ALL

Hello again,.

I am still around, just haven’t felt like writing. I have a dilemma and thought I would just put it put here and see what kind of feedback/ideas I get.

Here’s the deal: My husband is going away next weekend for business. Now he has to be there for a meeting on Monday, but he is going to leave here early Sat morning and come home in the evening on Tuesday. (BE FORWARNED HERE OMC, HE MENTIONED CALLING YOU TO STOP BY). Now he is NOT the type of person to go somewhere on his own for any length of time (longer than 2 or 3 hours and he gets antsy), so why he is going to go 2 days early, is a conundrum, OK, not really, I just happen to like that word…lol NO, of course, he won’t be alone. And no, he isn’t going to see his brother until maybe Monday night, though he hasn’t called him either.

No, I happen to know that h e PLANS on seeing this new woman. Now my first reaction was to fly out there and surprise him, but money matters make that impossible. My next thought was hire an investigator near Joliet where he’ll be and have hin video taped and have his pictrue taken with her. I know she has plans to go out to dinner on Sat night. Of course this could all fall through and then I’ve paid a lot of maoney to an investigator for nothing.

SO any thoughts or ideas on what to do?

All suggestions welcome.

Thanks

It’s just my opionion…but I’d be curious as to why he’s doing this myself, and I’d wonder what was going on. I’m just not a very trusting person though…but in todays society women have to be careful, and we always have to be on the lookout. I hope things turn out okay for you.

.java.queen.

February 16, 2007

Random: I am interested now… your married and you think your husband is cheating on you!? I am going to read back entries…. ha see what random does for me! I have to know more!!!!

RYN: WOW, I do not blame you one bit for wanting the PROOF in your hands so then you feel you can leave and not be to blame so to say…. I am sure thats a very tough situation to be in. How old are your children? I would want to know if he was doing things like this behind my back if I were you. I’d hire a PI and get to the bottom of it atleast your your sanity….. goodness!!! Hangin there and keep your chin up!

Alexandra

Hmmm. Why not suggest going with him, just to see how he reacts? You’ll be so close to OMC .. and you can meet *me* too … What’s the harm in suggesting? I’m *sure* OMC would help you out on this one. He discomfort would only lend to your suspicions. Isn’t it cheaper for you to fly out than it is to pay an investigator??? hugs,

I feel for you 🙁 Definitely, it is best to hire a private investigator for the job, for many reasons. I used to be a PI and if I were in your situation, it would still be best for me to hire another to do the job you need done. Take care. Hugs,

oh gosh! i am SO sorry your husband is not being faithful to you. that must be very painful. i am so sorry. ryn: thank you so much for your offer of help. i would love to have your email address. right now i am on the billing section of the course. i believe after this i begin medical terminology. and then – coding. yes, i would love to be able to have you for a resource. THANK YOU somuch!

i was wondering, are you working in the medical field now? have you obtained a job? i work for a 12 doctor physician group doing medical billing. my employer is paying for my billing and coding course. isn’t that cool!

ryn: i am sorry it has been difficult to obtain employment. i have been in the medical field for a very long time. my experience has primarily been working within the hospital environment but i am not working for a physician group. i have experience but no formal education. you have formal education but no experience. we are opposite. :+)

correction: i am now working for a large physican group.

Maui Jim

March 19, 2007

Aloha nui loa… (3-19-07) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ just drifting by ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Me ke aloha…

Okay, call me nosy, but I’m curious as to whatever happened? Are you still around? I hope that you are, and I hope that all is well with you.

Missing you. Hope you are doing fine.