08/27/2009

Hi everyone,

I have to start off by thanking each and every one of you who left me a note or notes either here, in an email or on Facebook.  I am truly humbled by your kindness.  I can’t possibly read those notes and feel one bit sorry for myself because they were so loving and supportive.   Please continue to keep us in your prayers.  While I am scared, I am faithful.  God has gotten me through many tough times and I know this time will be no different.  I don’t know what I would do without God and my faith and such wonderful friends.

The landlord came by last night for an inspection of the apartment.  Brought the new owners to be.  It was actually the wife who came and they all speak arabic so I’m not sure what was said.  Shortly after they left the husband called Aimee and put some pressure on her about how soon we can get out since they do work to do.  Really the only work they have to do is paint the walls which I think is pretty standard when tenants move out.  The house is spotless, there is no damage anywhere.  I understand their need for us to move but I have to have both September and October checks to even get close to covering the costs of moving.  Which means I need to stay here until October 3rd which I know is longer than they would like.  I will probably have to go through the whole eviction process (court, etc.) to do this but I’ll do it if I have to.  If there is any way for us to move sooner then we will certainly do so. 

Makayla is doing well in day care although she’s had a few rough mornings this week.  On Tuesday she cried when Aimee took and I know that was so hard on Aimee.  I did call about an hour later to check on her and of course she was fine.  I sure do miss her though I know she is where she needs to be.  It just seems so strange and quiet here.  I find myself thinking what I am going fix her for lunch and then realize I don’t need to.  It’s so joyful when she comes home.  She runs and jumps in my arms like she hasn’t seen me for days LOL. 

I feel like all I have to talk about is moving!  One of my favs recently started doing a gratitude list and I think I will do that whenever I write an entry.  So I’ll post that and a few random pics of Makayla and then it’s back to craigslist.com

Today I am grateful for:

The everlasting presence of God in my life and the peace that brings me.

You, all of you.

My daughter for trying so hard to find employment.

The joy that my granddaughter brings to my life.

The internet for making it so much easier to search for a new place to live.

Random Pics:

shhhh don’t look at the mess!

Okay you can’t really see her very well in this pic (see the arrow pointing to her) but it gives you an idea of what was going on.  They went to a twilight concert in the park which featured Scottish singers and dancers and they picked a few people, including Makayla, to come up and dance on stage with them.  She loved it!

Here come the bagpipes!

Bathtime

Chuck E Cheese time!

See you soon! (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))

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August 27, 2009

If you go through the eviction process, how much time will it give you? They sound mean, stay as long as you can i say!!! Some ppl have NO compassion what-so-ever, kinda like the working world!!! Some days i wish i could win the lottery and run away!!! I am still praying you find something soon…I love and appreciate you [hugs]

I hope you can stay for as long as you need to to get what funds you need to move…..I think that people should have more compassion with the economy being the way it is right now…. She’s adorable! Such a cutie pie! I think it’s so awesome you count what you have to be grateful for! I find that difficult some days….:)

Pat
August 27, 2009

I agree totally with roseoftexas! Stay as long as the courts will allow. It takes time to find a place that is safe and affordable and enough room for 2 adults and a child. You are in my prayers. (((Hugs)))

August 27, 2009

If you had a yearly lease, it should take them about 2 months to get you out. At least thats how it works here. STAY as long as you can and save. Have you looked into other forms of help? Compassion is almost null and void with a lot of people these days especially when it comes to money. Its a sad thing. Makayla will be totally used to going to school soon. I can bet that within 5 minutesof mom leaving, shes just fine. Thats awesome that she went to a concert like that. I bet she was excited when they picked her. YOu are in my thoughts my friend. {{hugs}}

I’ve run into people who think that because they are able to move on the dot everyone else ‘should’ also be able to. I had to save up and move also. the last time I moved I had to time so I could afford to move. Good luck!

I love your gratitudes list. I also think I will do this, as it helps me keep my focus where it SHOULD be!!! Makayla is such a precious li’l girl and so cute, too!! How exciting to be chosen to go up on the stage with them. I think she may sensing what’s going on with the eviction and such. But, she will be fine, cuz she has a most loving & supportive Mama and GrandMama!!!!!!! Oh, and I agree withabove noters, it SHOULD take at least 60 days to “legally process” an eviction. I will keep praying daily!!!!!! BigHugz.

I can’t begin to imagine the anxiety and stress of the housing situation you’re in. I do understand about the owner needing to pay his own bills, he might have a mortgage on the place that he depends on the rental income to pay…. but still, it’s very very hard on people going through difficult times and God knows there’s lots of that going around these days. I know things will work out for you in the end but in the meantime hang in there and hold on to your faith.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all, i hope you will find a new place soon… And your grandaughter is just adorable!!!!!

August 27, 2009

i’m a sucker for bagpipes…i love them :o) i bought a lottery ticket today…if i win, i’ll share ;o)

August 27, 2009

I think Leisah has pretty much said what was running through my mind. Are there organizations that can help you? I’m glad Makayla had a good time. She doesn’t need grown-up stressors.

You are an inspiration to me. Your courage remarkable. I know you’ve got to be feeling a little scared and nervous. But it sounds like you are managing. I hope everything works out. Yes, just stay until October. Even though it may not feel like it, you have a wonderful game plan. You are in control.

August 28, 2009

Wanted to come by because of an offer of prayer. My prayers are with you and your daughter. God Bless you always

August 28, 2009

Wow! I’ve been out of pocket for the last week or so. I’ll have to catch up on your entries and find out what happened. I hate that you have to move again:(