I don’t want to be stuck in the middle!

This past weekend in Hartford I met a guy that I’ve known for a while and I’ve traded with numerous times. It was great to be able to put a face to the name. His girlfriend is currently in France on a work program and she’ll be there until December.

When we first were hanging out he (M) said there were some other people that he needed to say hello to. So I went with him along with one of the other girls. This was the first time I ever walked into a room of DMB fans and felt a bad vibe. There was just something off. Only one person in the group of about 15 said hello to me and L. He was nice enough to offer us both a shot! Someone asked what our screen names were on the boards. I said mine and added that I post mostly on nancies…not the one they are all from. It was like that made us outcasts. I even heard a girl say “Oh, they’re nancies” like it was a bad thing! Who cares…we’re all there out of love for the band for god sakes.

After being there for about 15 minutes, I leaned over to M and told him L and I didn’t feel comfortable so we were going to take off. If he wanted to call us later and hang out he knew my number. He just shook his head and said he would come with us. I said fine, thanked the nice boy for the shot and told everyone to enjoy the shows. I told M as we were in the elevator that I had a bad vibe from that room. He agreed. They were not happy that we showed up.

Fast forward to today when M IM’s me saying that his girlfriend was all pissed off. I asked why and he told me that she heard he wasn’t nice to everyone in the room, which ended up being friends of hers, and we made him leave. Now he wants me to send her an email explaining what happened.

I don’t need this drama. It is not my problem. I feel bad that they’re fighting. I can’t believe she doesn’t believe him. And I found out she’s all pissed off because he spent the entire weekend with us instead of these other people. Shouldn’t she just be happy he had fun?

{{{Hugz}}}
PG