NoJoMo 1

I’ll give this NoJoMo thing a try, although I’m pretty sure I bombed it the last time I tried.

I’m doing well. Shannon is doing well. Everyone around us seems to be seperating and getting divorced though. First it was Patty and Jeff who have been married since 2006 and together for like 14 years. Jeff moved back to Ottawa and Patty stayed in Toronto. Then he told her it was over. Now he’s being a complete dick and they’re getting divorced.

Then Steve and Amelie told us that Steve is moving out of the house. They’ve been married since 2007 and met in university. I didn’t think they were having problems. Steve said he thinks its over, but Amelie is convinced he’s moving back in before Christmas.

Then Jen told me she broke up with Ken and moved out of the house. Seriously?

This all kind of scares me. I was used to having all my friends getting married and having children but having friends who are divorced too? I’m too young for this.

I hope I don’t ever get divorced. My parents divorced when I was 3. My mom and stepdad probably should be divorced, but whatever…. he’s too old now and will likely die in a few years leaving her alone anyway. And Shannon’s parents divorced when he was 6 or 7 too. His mom and stepdad seem to have a good relationship though.
 
This week I found out that Dave’s girlfriend is pregnant. They’re due at the end of April. I know I shouldn’t care since we broke up in 2007, but I kinda do. Dave owned a house before me and he has the car I want and now they’re expecting a baby they have apparently been trying for. But, I just keep reminding myself that I’m doing things at my own pace and at least I am married. It was really important to me not to have kids before I was married, even though I’m not religious or whatever. I just didn’t want to… so I feel like I’m making a good decision here.

Anyway, I have to run bc I’m working an overnight tonight and I haven’t done one in ages. It’s gonna suck!!! 🙁