Making a Decision *

EDIT : Tickets sold out. Well, that made the decision for me…

 I am trying to make a decision. I may have mentioned I like Leonard Cohen, right? Well, he is giving a concert tour and I am trying to decide if I want to go or not.

Pro:

  • I have almost every song he has written
  • He is my age which means this will probably be his last concert
  • I have always wanted to see him in concert
  • The concert is getting excellent reviews
  • Boston is not very far away
  • The concert is at the end of May so it is not very likely there would be snow

Con:

  • The good tickets are over $250 {and that is before the surcharges one has to pay to buy a ticket on line}
  • I would have to buy a plane ticket to Boston
  • I would need to get a hotel because the concert is at 8 pm and I don’t like the idea of rushing back home at night

Hmmm, think, think, think…

"You are not happy because you are well. You are well because you are

happy. You are not depressed because trouble has come to you, but

trouble has come to you because you are depressed. You can change

your thoughts and feelings, and then the outer things will come to

correspond, and indeed there is no other way of working."

Emmet Fox

"Enjoyment is not a goal; it is a feeling that accompanies important ongoing activity."

Paul Goodman

 

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March 4, 2009

Another OD friend of mine, Gypsy Spirit, went to see Leonard Cohen not tooooooo long ago when he was in her country (New Zealand). She said it was an amazing concert! :o) !! hugs, Nicky

March 4, 2009

*chokes at ticket price!* One time Paul McCartney was in Las Vegas (a do-able trip for me) and my son and his wife and her mother went to it. The tickets were $250. the mother also went to Ohio and saw him in concert there, presumeably for the same price. I told a friend that for that amount of money, I should be able to bear his children! I loved John Denver and always wished I’d gone to one of his concerts, and never did. Then he died. But he never charged $250, either. In other words, I wouldn’t pay that kind of money to see anybody. But some people would. It’s all a matter of just how much you want to go vs. how much money you want to blow for that experience.

March 4, 2009

I think you should. I think it would be a wonderful treat for you.

March 4, 2009

oh man… just saw your edit… ebay?

Pat
March 4, 2009

I’m sorry that you can’t get a ticket. Keep checking. Sometimes things change for people and they have to sell their tickets. (((Hugs)))

March 4, 2009

What else are you going to do with the money? How much is the pleasure of listening to him in person worth? If you can answer those two questions, you’ll have your answer. I personally always err on the side of “I actually did that” rather than “I wish I had done that.” Sounds like a rare and beautiful occasion to me.

That’s a lot for a ticket, BUT, if this is something you have always wanted to do, and if you have the money, then why not? Enjoy life. Do things like that if and when you can. Life is too short not to! Hugs,M

March 4, 2009

GO and enjoy!!! Life is so short!

March 4, 2009

Hmmm. That’s a lot of money for tickets (eBay or Stubhub if you still want to go.) On the other hand, many of our vacations have centered around concerts because the Other Human had the opportunity to hear his music idol, Stevie Ray Vaughn, play here. He chose to go to a baseball game instead, reasoning that he’d see SRV next time he played. There was no next time, thanks for a helicopter crash the following week.

oh, I’m sorry the tickets sold out. Still, at least you don’t have to make any decisions. I love that quote by Emmet Fox. It is so true.

Shi
March 4, 2009

Pity they were sold out, you could have had a mini vacation.

March 4, 2009

Ask yourself this: Six months to a hear from now, if you go to the concert, will you be unhappy with yourself because of the money you spent? On the other hand, if you DON’T go, then will you look back six months to a year from now and wish that you had? Personally I would vote “go.” But on the other hand, I’ve always been a huge fan of the Rolling Stones, and I’ve decided that I’mnot going to pay the prices they charge for their concert tickets, and I’m completely comfortable with the decision. (That comfort is also partly due to my already having seen them three times back in the 60’s when their tickets were a lot cheaper.)

ryn: does seem like I was doing him a favor driving him to school but in DE when the kids don’t show up parents get fined. I needed to make sure he got to school.

March 4, 2009

I say go for it!

March 4, 2009

Ah, go ahead and do it.

March 4, 2009

You should do it. It would be awesome. 🙂

If you can afford it then go for it. 🙂

March 4, 2009

I live very frugally. I paid a lot for Tina Turner tickets last fall. So so worth it! And I learned I won’t have to pay that much again to enjoy next concert in the same arena. I can get seats just about $100 less and just off to side of stage and up off floor and get same experience. So I will go more often. Now I am better off. Why did I wait so long? Be well and enjoy the music!….dan

March 4, 2009

I think concert prices have gotten so out of hand. I enjoy the thought of going more than the actual concert much of the time. P.S. Got my new Kindle and can’t put it down

March 4, 2009

Go for it !

March 4, 2009

I would say go for it. It would be a great experience for you, and besides, you only live once.

March 4, 2009

$250 a ticket?! Eeps! It would have to be the event of a lifetime for me to spend that much… still, you can take the money that you were going to spend on the concert and do something really special with it. (huggles)

March 4, 2009

1. Can you afford it? 2. Will you kick yourself for ever if you don’t go? 3. Coule you live with it if you go there, after forking out for flight, hotel and ticket, if the concert was cancelled at the last minute? If part of you would do ANYTHING to see him, and you can afford it and don’t mind if things go wrong (though obviously that would be very uncool), then I’d say go for it.These things are ‘once in a lifetime’ and at his age, I’d say you’re correct in thinking it may be your last chance.

March 5, 2009

Being a mucic freak, and loving the man, I’d go if I could. Boston is fun. Why not be good to yourself and do something you wouldn’t ordinarily do? Will Fred come with? Love to you! ~M

March 5, 2009

The only song of his I can remember is Suzanne. Many years ago, when I was taking a course in evolution, the professor asked what fossils are. My thought – fossils are the folks who go to see dinosaur bands. I’ve been to see Jefferson Starship, Santana and P-Funk in my later years.

March 5, 2009

I would have a hard time making that decision too, especially if it was someone I so loved. Sorry to hear they sold out. I’ve had that several times trying to see Aerosmith. 🙂

ooh! You like Leonard Cohen! He is one of my mother’s all-time favourite artists, too!