Thoughts after Surgery

  • This is a list of bullets because that is all I can do at this time
  • There is very little pain from the incision, but I am getting horrible cramps in my buttock every time I try to walk. Fortunately, standing up and turning my foot towards my butt is not only an approved exercise but relieves the cramp.
  • Incidentally, thanks to oxycontin, the incision hardly hurts at all. The cramp in my butt is MUCH worse
  • A visiting nurse will be here tomorrow. I will ask her to call the doctor and get something to help with the cramping.
  • I keep typing misspellings and having to correct the spellings
  • I actually injected myself in the stomach  with a blood thinner a few minutes ago and I was dreading it. There was nothing to it . I got Fred to stay with me to give  me courage and then I did it. It is like so much else in life I dread. Once I do it, the anticipation was worse than the act!
  •  I slept on my back for five hours last night then woke up, made my way to the bathroom and then spent the next two hours sleeping in my Lazy-Boy chair. I didn’t mean to fall asleep—I meant to read, but apparently I needed sleep,
  • The hardest part of all this is having to plan everything. Like, when I went to the bathroom, I wanted to bring back the medications into the bedroom but I had nothing to carry them in. It is hard to carry stuff and use a walker. Finally, I asked Fred to put them in a grocery bag and bring them. We take our mobility so much for granted…
  • I am mentally planning out the steps that need to be taken to get my hair washed…
  • I AM reading. Noting is a bit more difficult…

QUOTATION: If you have the courage to begin, you have the courage to succeed.

— David Viscott

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June 24, 2007

my heart is with you Patrisha

June 24, 2007

Here’s to a wonderful recovery. Sounds like you’re on your way.

June 24, 2007

I’m glad you made it through surgery okay. hope you keep getting good pain relief.

Glad you are on the other side of surgery and on your way to recovery. Fred was very good at keeping us updated.

June 24, 2007

Hi, Patrisha Hang in there! Every day gets better! Enjoy that package! love Snackin’ Diane 🙂

June 24, 2007

Perhaps Fred could attach a small basket or something like that to the front of the walker….just a thought. frank

Everything you do is a step to recovery. This will all be worth the final outcome. Your life will be much improved due to this surgery.

June 24, 2007

Wishing you a speedy recovery.

June 24, 2007

Onward and upward to Italy. I’m so glad you were into walking and keeping fit before the surgery, it’s bound to help you recover faster.

Can you tie a little mesh bag to the walker for your things? It should get easier soon! It’s wonderful that you are posting. You’ll probably feel much better after you get your hair washed. A complete bath/shower after surgery always makes me feel about 50% better even though nothing really changes.

🙂 Hi Patrica – when I had a walker after my leg I hung a carrier bag on the walker. the only thing is that if it has too much in it, it swings and upset the balance. I wonder if you have a bum bag you could attach to the walker? Something lighter that a full swinging carrier bag? I think the hardest thing with the injections is the pinching the tummy and doing the sticking but hurrah, you had the courage to do the sticking. Well done you.:-)

that butt cramp doesn’t sound nice at all.

I can barely stand a toe cramp nonetheless a butt cramp. Ouch! Keep up the good work!

wishing you a fast and complete recovery.

June 24, 2007

you’ll get a little bit better as every day passes. glad you’re home. so sorry about that butt cramp. hopefully, there’s something the doctor can do for that. we do take our mobility for granted. if you don’t feel like noting, don’t worry about it. you will when you can. take care,

June 24, 2007

They do make walker trays…. I’m so glad to hear you’re doing so well. Now if I could just think of a tasteful joke about your “pain in the arse”…. Love you. ~M

They make little baskets to go on the front of a walker. They really do come in handy. Glad you are able to do your injections. Even though E has been an insulin dependant diabetic for years I had to do the stomach injections for him. L Hope you continue to get stronger every day. Hugs, M

I’m glad you’re healing and resting well 🙂 Your other noters have some great ideas about baskets and bags to help you tote your things around. Take care,

June 24, 2007

How about a basket around your neck? Everyone else all ready had the other more normal basket idea so I had to use this one. I think this is much more practical, could use in the shower for a shampoo holder for hair also, hahaha. have fun…dan

June 24, 2007

The lady across the street used to have a little basket on the front of her walker that she put stuff in. I wonder if you can get one for yours, or at least figure out how to hang something there. Considering that it’s been less than a week, you are doing fantastic. Hope the exercises and stuff are going okay as well!

June 24, 2007
Pat
June 24, 2007

The cramps sound terrible, but they will subside really soon. You are healing really quick! It’s good to see you on here, bullets or not. (((Hugs)))

June 24, 2007

I remember that too — the first couple of weeks after the surgery was a complete fog, I just drifted in bed with the cats and the spaniel, and well, just wasn’t there. I am glad that they’re addressing the pain issue, and there are some good stuff out there for the cramps.

June 24, 2007

If I ever have to go through surgery or give myself an injection, I am sure that what I read from you and other friends who’ve gone through these things will help me a lot! Thanks for sharing your experiences. And I hope the cramping soon goes completely away! hugs, Weesprite

June 24, 2007

I think you’re doing great to be up and about so quickly, hopefully the cramps will ease soon. Best wishes. 😉

Shi
June 24, 2007

On your way to recovery it seems and hopefully it will go smoothly and swiftly.

June 24, 2007

U R Kool. Keep up the great attitude and good work.

June 24, 2007

I’m glad you’re able to make an entry. Here’s to a speedy recovery for you.

June 24, 2007

well, the hard part is done with and now onto recovery and a better future.

June 24, 2007

sounds like you need to hang a bicycle basket off the front of the walker to carry stuff in! (huggles)

June 24, 2007

Oh, just take care, REST, and get better!! WE LOVE YOU!

June 24, 2007

Can you lie on your front? Just thinking when your butt hurts you could roll onto your front and have Fred massage your bum. I’m sure he’d be happy to assist! 😀

June 25, 2007

I’m so glad you’re doing well. 🙂

June 25, 2007

I think you are doing wonderfully well, thinking out things ahead & relying on Fred to help you. Mend well, dear friend. Anna

June 25, 2007

Welcome home …. and I do understand the frustrations. But by the time you’re in Italy, you won’t even remember what a chore it was to get to the bathroom! 🙂

*hugs*

June 25, 2007

Patrisha! I missed so much by being absent from OD lately! I send you love and wishes for a speedy recovery. Your sense of humor and the love that surrounds you are going to make it easier, I’m certain… I’m picturing you strolling around Italy pain-free!

June 25, 2007

Take care. Yes we take so much forgranted.

June 25, 2007

I’m sorry to hear about you going back to the hospital again. 🙁

June 25, 2007

*huggs* I hope you recover quickly!

After spending 16 weeks last summer in a cast, on a walker…or scooting along on my butt, I NEVER take my mobility for granted ANY MORE! I feel for you. It sounds like you’re doing well though. You certainly have the determination it takes to heal quickly.

June 26, 2007
June 27, 2007

Whenever you see this, you must be home … so welcome home! I’ve been checking Fred’s diary and thinking of you constantly.