Tired on Thursday
So around 11:30, I put a sandwich, some grapes and a small piece of gingerbread in a bag and walked up Main Street to the school to eat lunch and read with the 4th grader, Nick. First, I was there 5 minutes early and so was he. We didn’t meet last week because it was holidays for them so we hadn’t seen each other for two weeks. We went into the lunchroom and we unpacked our lunches. I ate mine and he messed his around. His mother is wasting her money buying them these prepackaged lunches because this is the third one I have seen him not eat.
While he was not eating, he was demonstrating how well he could say tongue-twisters so I wowed him with my rendition of "Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers!" Then I remembered something that amused me no end when I was his age. I told him that in England we say that someone who didn’t understand what was going on didn’t know "…how many beans made five." So, how many beans DO make five? The answer to the question is, "A bean and a half and a bean and a half and half a bean and a bean and a half!" He found this as amusing as I had hoped and insisted on saying it over and over until he learned it. Then he said he was going to ask his dad how many beans made five when he got home after school!
We went into the auditorium to read and I read the next chapter of The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe. He was attentive but when I was through, he pulled out three Sonic the Hedgehog comics which he said he would like to read. I need to ask what the school policy is but *I* happen to think it is silly to ban comics so I said sure. But I told him I wasn’t familiar with the characters and I would ask lots of questions. He is an excellent reader. He read with feeling and made an excellent attempt to decipher words he didn’t know. What I found amusing was that not only did he read with emphasis but he also did different voices for the different characters! Most of the words he understood from contex but although he said "carcinerous pancreatic" correctly, he did not know the meaning specifically. When we got to new characters, he explained who they were and what was going on. Oh, one thing I found interesting was that he didn’t know that Col. was the abbreviation for colonel, but he only had to be told once.
About ten minutes before the end , he politely asked me if I would like to read and so I did. When it was time to leave, he asked if I would like him to bring the comics back next time we meet so I could read more of them. I said I would because quite honestly I was enjoying it when I knew who the characters were and what was going on. I told him that I thought it was a good thing to have two books going so we had lots to talk about. So, when I see him again in two weeks, after my trip, we will be going on with the first Narnia book and also his Sonic the Hedgehog comics! On the walk back to the classroom, he told me he thought I was a "cool mentor!" I thanked him and asked why. He said it was because I like comics and because I had an iPod! I then realized that I had the iPod tucked into my jeans pocket with the ear-pods hanging out because I didn’t want to leave it in my coat pocket which would be left in the hall while I was somewhere else.
I got home and had enough time to go to the bathroom and brush my teeth before charging off to help Robin. She has a lot of catching up to do since she was off sick a few days so I asked her what she felt she needed help with urgently. To my surprise, it wasn’t her weekly essay she wanted to start on first but the rules for making plural of nouns. Apparently somewhere in her past schooling, she had missed out on them {she is 27} and was floundering around. So, we reviewed then and I took her orally through her worksheet. We did get a good start on the outline of her essay as well. Since I am going to be gone for two weeks, I asked her if she would like an extra session this weekend and she agreed to Saturday morning at 10. She will have her children but they are old enough to keep themselves busy for an hour.
I am exhausted! Fred fixed vegetable soup for supper and I am enjoying it.
Until later…
look at you reading comic books. you are a cool mentor. 🙂
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You are doing such wonderful work with these young people! I bet it is a tonic for you, too, to know you are making a big difference in their lives. I agree with you about comics. When my son was little, I would buy him junky monster books because at least that kept him reading.
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Sounds like a lot of fun!
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That sounds like a fulfilling day! The little boy sounds as sweet as can be!
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Jeepers, woman! Go put your feet up!!!!!! Glad you had a good day…Nicholas sounds lovely, as I’m sure he’s finding you… Love the “beans” thing… Have a good night. Love ya! ~M
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I’ve heard the saying “how many beans make five” but I’ve never heard the response!
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No wonder you are exhausted but fulfilled I am sure after two rewarding encounters. Your efforts will reap rewards for these young people that will last down through the years.
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what a wonderful lunchtime you had with this youngster…I wasn’t aware kids today don’t know “Peter Piper” or “how many beans make five” ( mind you, that is a very english one. ..I know it as was born in UK)… so much we used to enjoy that kids now don’t get a chance to do. RYN: thanks for explaining about lack of smileys,…I do use a popup blocker. Grrr. Can’t win!! LOL have a nice day, hugs
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You are a -very- cool mentor. How I wished I had had someone like you around when I was growing up!
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you are a great mentor. 🙂
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*huggs* and thank you
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I hope when I’m retired I can be as healthy and as active as you, and do some fulfilling work like this.
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ryn: is being able to cry so easily really a positive thing? i am having trouble seeing this. do you mind elaborating? i feel like i need help! (if you’re too busy getting ready for your trip, don’t worry!)
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Wow…and I was bored today. You’re such a good teacher 🙂
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Well, you sound pretty cool to me! And I’m way beyond 4th grade! My brother was not much of a reader until my mom got him a bunch of comic books–it was just the practice he needed to really get good at reading. So whatever you can get them to read, even if it’s comic books, let them read it, I say. I hope his school doesn’t have a problem with that.
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ryn: thank you for your notes. i do feel better. i hope i can learn to accept this part of me. it seems the tears come at inopportune times. it also makes people uncomfortable–though in writing groups, i guess i give people permission to cry–because more people cry too.
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Sounds like you are working with a young boy who is fun. I guess reading comics is bettter than reading nothing. Also it isn’t the only thing you are doing so what’s the harm.
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