All Things Must Come to an End

It is official…my reign of Freecell has ended at 27 straight wins *pouts*.

Anyway, this entry will kind of jump around a little to put in thoughts I’ve had over the past couple of days.

*point one*

One of the things I’ve thought about lately is the whole virginity issue. We have all heard that sex should wait until marriage because it’s sacred right? Well what happens when you get married and the person you marry doesn’t work the way you want to? Does that mean that you should wait until you marry again before you can have sex or what?

I ask that because I’ve talked to some people before who have had sex before marriage. I’ve had a mix of responses from “I regret it” to “I don’t regret it”. I guess people know a days are more sexually active and they engage in sex with someone they love and cherish.

I also began thinking about how I have become the person I am today. I asked myself if it was the result of my parent’s upbringing or was it just me? There’s a lot of things I don’t do and that comes from both my parents and myself. I have a drive to make my parents proud and all of that stuff.

However, there are things that have come from me being me. For one, my immediate family prefers for me to date black girls; I lean more towards white girls but I am willing to date anyone who catches my eye. I am more of an inside person; both of my parents loves working outside. Whenever fall came, I always hate it when I knew they were going to go outside and rake the leaves or something.

I’ve gotten my sense of clean from my mom…kind of. I’m not as neat as she is because I don’t mind if there’s a piece of paper or two on the floor. However, I’m not a pig person either in that regards.

I think that we are all shaped by everything that is around us. I also firmly believe that mistakes helps us to grow wiser as we grow older. In fact, that’s what Liz and I talked about last night on the phone. We talked about how we have both changed how we look at relationships now than we did before. Today, I know that the key to a successful relationship hinges on communication: without it, the relationship falters.

And speaking of relationships, I have a new girlfriend *smiles*. Her name is Morgan and I asked her out on Wednesday night. She is on FOD and her diary name is Morgans Fantasy Land.

Have a good weekend.