Am I Too Nice?

After reading this article on askmen.com, I think I am. Here’s some of the situations they listed if you’re a nice guy:

You are more comfortable hanging out with women than men and you have few male friends.

Your biggest thrill in the last few months came after you spent an entire Saturday fixing your foxy neighbor’s broken toilet and she said, “You are so sweet!”

You avoid conflict with your girlfriend at all costs.

Saying “No” to your girlfriend never enters your mind.

It is difficult for you to put your own needs first. You think that if you do, you are being selfish.

You consider yourself more sensitive and evolved than other men.

The last time you got past second base was three Fourth of Julys ago at the neighborhood softball game.

You pride yourself on not being like the other men who “only have one thing on their minds.” (You happen to have the same thing on your mind, but you hide it from women — and yourself.)

You always ask for a woman’s permission before you try to kiss her on the cheek.

Your emotional well-being is dependent on your girlfriend’s happiness. You are happy only when she is happy.

So what do you think?

Schizophelia

October 2, 2002

That’s definatly TOO nice. You can’t be afraid to say no sometimes. Doing things you’d rather nt will only make you unhappy. <3

nt = not I’m such a dunce sometimes. <3

god if this applies to both sexes..i may have to think about this for awhile the one about thinking about your own needs, and then if you do you feel selfish..that one hooked me hard *hugs* I added you to my favs awhile back but chaos got in the way of me really having a chance to get to know you more Im sorry for that I hope to remedy that real soon and hon? i dont know about

i dont know about “too nice” but..thanks for being one of the “nice” guys i want you to know that being thoughtful is appreciated even from strangers like me perhaps its not that you are too nice perhaps its the majority of the world needs to be nicer if everyone was as nice maybe we wouldnt have so much BS *hugs*

Some women absolutely adore these qualities, but still take you for granted. Other women hate good guys, they always want the bad boy. Be whoever you are regardless. *smiles*

Starr418

too nice.. hehe

I don’t believe that there is such a thing as being too nice. Maybe, just learn to say “No” a little more 🙂

there is no such thing as “TOO” nice! I think people confuse too nice with “being a gentleman” keep itup! even though people say girls like mean/bad guys, it’s not true!

RYN: I never got to note you before now *L* thats how chaotic its been!

yourdesire;

October 4, 2002

Just a random not. It would be nice if guys were like that a lot more. Take care

That may be alittle too nice… Learn to say no sometimes!! If this applies the same to girls as it does guys… I’m screwed. My friends always tell me I’m too nice. I better toughen up a bit! 😉