Words on a Screen

  • C: I’ve chosen to ignore your texts from last night, this morning and your emails today.  I’m just not in the mental/emotional mood to deal with you today.  I don’t care how worried you get.  Deal with it.
     
  • B: It’s amazing to me that you continue to contact me only when you need something.  That’s not what a friend is supposed to be.  Yet again I find myself in a one-sided relationship.  Always giving, never receiving.
     
  • T: Yes, I lent you $2k to get your car back after it was repossessed.  It’s killing me that you’re so behind on all the necessities (rent/car/electric/gas) yet you are buying the kids expensive sports equipment, buying new things to wear and eating out all the time.  You really need to grow up and learn how to prioritize.  I am not bailing you out again.
     
  • D: Same thing you to.  Please stop crying to me about how money poor you are when you’re out there getting your nails done, tanning, going out to eat with friends, throwing parties.  Grow up!
     
  • J: I feel so awkward.  I could really use a new friend and you and I hit it off every time we’ve been together.  But you were a little too touchy feely a few times and that makes me nervous, especially since you’re a girl.  If you weren’t a lesbian who is recently separated from your spouse I would so love to contact you and see if you’d like to go out somewhere sometime.  But I don’t want to be giving off any wrong impressions. 
     
  • T: Same thing with you.  I’ve helped you move I don’t know how many times.  But you haven’t even offered to come and help me.  So tired.
     
  • B: I really miss you.  After so many years together it’s really hard not being in any type of contact with you.  I really wanted to remain friends, but I know you cannot do that.  You were so angry and hatefilled and violent sounding the last time we talked.  I hope you have started to heal from the hurt and anger I brought to you.  I have some things I know you’d like to have, pictures of you when you were younger and a tablecloth that was your grandmother’s.  But I don’t know how to reach out to you.  I don’t want to … I don’t know, get you mad or upset you.
     
  • M: I practically raised you, I really thought above everyone else when things ended in my marriage that you’d remain in my life.  It hurts really bad that you decided not to.  I know he’s your brother…but still.
     
  • J: Why is the house I am under contract with still listed?
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The last J may be like that until your investigation is done and all the paperwork is finished. I know that if my B and I split, it would be hard not to make sure he was happy too.