A Morning in Thach – Part II

Reprint of Original of 9/26/00 Open Diary

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My grandfather was positioned on the ancient stool just to the front of Bessie’s left rear leg, his right shoulder leaning into her thigh to alert him of any sudden movement and give him time to move clear of a surprise kick. His arms were operating as if on a pulley – left up right down, right up left down – each hand exerting a gentle and progressive pressure on the teat as the arm lowered, beginning with the thumb and continuing down to the little finger. Each upward move would see his hand move into her bag just a bit in order to bring down a maximum amount of milk.

The sharp ping of the milk hitting the silver pail gave way to a soft muffled rhythm as the bucket began to fill and the warm foam covering met the cool morning air, emitting little wisps of steam. My grandfather would smile and let me move over by him as he guided my hands into position very patiently. What a thrill to feel that stream of milk empty into the pail, though I never established the rhythm he had.

Once Bessie was milked dry, we covered the pail with the clean milk rag which had been brought from the house, picked up the milking stool and together left the stall. The world inside the barn was a soothing chorus of contented chomping as we swung the doors shut.

Walking back outside it was clear that daybreak was quickly gaining as the darkness of the sky gave way to a lighter gray with some streaks of pink and touches of yellow. Later on in the heat of the midday sun it would not seem possible that the morning had held such a chilly darkness. The long pasture grass now began to take on a green hue in the approaching light and though it still felt damp and cool on my skinny legs, it seemed to be somewhat drier and stand a little taller as it shed its wet nightime blanket and prepared to dance away another summer day.

Our retreat was heralded by the crowing of the old rooster and subtle clucking noises as we passed the henhouse. My grandmother would come out later to turn them out as she did her own outside chores. The birds were waking up and signaling one another good morning and it seemed there must be millions of them hiding in the treetops. My grandfather’s sharp eyes caught a glimpse of a retreating owl through the trees, but I wasn’t fast enough to see it.

At the pasture gate we repeated our actions in reverse and turned from the pasture to head home. We could see the old farmhouse with smoke swirling upward from the chimney spreading out darkly against the breaking dawn and the warm welcoming yellow light shining from the windows. The mingled aromas of bacon and coffee would reach us and I began to picture the pan of biscuits in the warming oven covered with fresh churned butter. Eggs would be ready to slide into the old iron skillet just as soon as our feet stomped onto the porch.

The back porch was screened and just inside the door on the right stood a very old whitewashed wooden table which held a water bucket, a chipped enamel wash basin and a copper soap dish. My grandfather took the dipper from the wall over the bucket and filled the basin so that we could wash up for breakfast. I took my turn first and shivered at the sudden chill of the cold water splashing against my face. My grandfather passed off the pail of warm milk to my grandmother and she covered it with yet another cloth as she set it aside to be strained and dealt with after breakfast.

Walking into the kitchen from the porch, I was swallowed up into the warm humid environment as my grandmother lifted the eggs from the skillet and onto the platter with the bacon. The coffee pot on the back of the stove perked away and little clouds of steam burst forth from the spout and carried the most wonderful smell. I always wished for a cup of coffee with a taste that matched that smell.

My grandmother gently scolded me for dragging dirt in on my shoes as she moved the biscuits onto the table, slid the platter of bacon and eggs in beside them, poured coffee for my grandfather and a big glass of milk for me. She quickly planted a kiss on the top of my head as she passed behind me and my grandfather and I shared a secret smile. We both knew that her chastising would progress from dirt on the kitchen floor in the coolness of this morning, to running in the house when she called me in for dinner, to slamming the screen door as the sun began to wane and supper was on the table.

As a young girl having breakfast in my grandparents’ kitchen basking in the warmth of a wood stove fire and the love of these two special people, I had no way of knowing I would never feel more loved or more safe than on that early summer morning in an old farmhouse in Thach, Alabama.

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A lovely story, patalija, you certainly have some beautiful memories to share *smiles*

April 13, 2002

Your last sentence brought tears to my eyes.

gel
April 13, 2002

Thanks for taking us back there with you. It was a lovely journey!

Wow. I very much enjoyed these two entries! The only grand parent that I ever knew was my maternal Grandfather up until he passed when I was 5. I have warm, loving memories of him too. You have reminded me of the splendid things of childhood and memories 🙂 Hugs and thanks!

Thanks for sharing this. It reminds me of my grandfathers Iowa farm…we milked a goat and fed the milk to lambs in the middle of winter. Summer was nice too.

April 14, 2002

Oh yes, tears….this was so vivid and wonderful, I felt like I was there with you. You are a wonder. Thank you. :)xoxoxox

April 14, 2002

I had some friends in Aussie who milked every morning for about 45 years. I was very flattered that they let me comed milking with them as the cows are very particular and an ‘audience’ can inhibit them. You were so lucky to have that as a child. I loved my childhood days visiting the ‘grands’ farm… Greggie’s scooter, big cows, space – lots of wide open space. mmmmm …can almost smell it

April 14, 2002

What a writer you are! Have you published your memoirs?

RYN Apology patalija meant to tell you I’d made a change. Am I fogiven? Hugs and love

Of course not patalija I should have asked you if it was okay…Lots of Hugs

April 14, 2002

My grandpa would always send a bit of milk in the direction of the old tom cat who was always nearby waiting for just such a moment. 🙂

Hi dear friend you have mail. All is well, Big Hug

April 15, 2002
MJ+
April 15, 2002

What a beautifully described memory. I think it’s true, nobody loves you more than your grandparents.

April 15, 2002

🙂 I like plants. They just have this strange desire to grow! Poke the little suckers in a bit of earth and … Bob’s your uncle! When I fuss with them in trays I get so excited. Hermie grew up on a farm and my minute-by-minute progress reports on my “green babies” gave him a laugh. I have “grandchildren” white dicentra. Hermie says that’s really scarey when he thinks how long his father farmed!:)

April 15, 2002

Def’n: green babies; plants propagated from seed<BR?Def'n: grandchildren green babies; plants propagated from the seed of green babies (see above)For those in the competition of more generations of family propagating green babies is so much more satisfying in that the gestation period and time to maturity/fruition is much less! hehehe Sorry! *smacks hand* “Badgirlbadgirlbadgirl!” :)cheesy grin

April 15, 2002

OOPS! Previous note got screwed up!Def’n: green babies, plants propagated from seedDef’n:grandchildren green babies; plants propagated from seed of green babiesI have new seed from a friend who sells it internationally. She gave me a hat – “Gone to seed.” and a T-shirt with the names of about 15 – 20 of her “favourite” children! Seriously, her favourites are human children, hmmmm… 🙂

April 15, 2002

The very , very best thing about green babies is that no matter how little you can do other than breathe you can poke holes in soil and watch the fruition of your “labours”. 🙂 I’ve lost hundreds of babies but thousands more will survive! Never call it “hardy” until it withstands the abuse of your own hands and the neglect of your own crappy soil.

April 15, 2002

thanks for those kind words 🙂 definately cheered me up on a bit of a ‘low ebb morning’ .. I havent given OD so much time lately and my readership has dwindled a bit – you know how people come and go online – so its very nice to meet someone new 🙂

April 18, 2002

No, no, no! Mike’s my brother! :)It’s raining here and I’m happy that my seeds are getting special treatment from Mother Nature. I’m checking on them daily but so far no little green noses have poked out. I was about to plant squash yesterday and saw tons of little green things. Que? AHA! That’s where I slewed around those red poppy seeds! hehehe 🙂 Off to buy/beg/borrow more seeds!

Will you be at the PNW BBQ? I’m looking forward to meeting everyone. It will be so cool!

April 22, 2002

Dear patalija, I love this story about your Grandfather and Grandmother. I know that feeling of basking in the love of two people who really want you around! Special memories! Love and hugs,

What a wonderful gift from your grandparents, providing you with such a rich memory. Both my paternal grandparents were from Alabama (think I may have mentioned that… ) but neither farmed, and I only knew them in a western, urban context. I aspire to be the kind of grandparent that provides rich memories for my new grandbaby. Uh-oh. It’s started already: that grandmother pride thing. 🙂