I’m a pretty fat show pony
so this weekend Baboo kept getting calls from his family and he told me it was for some surprise birthday party for one of his uncles. He kept saying he wanted to go, but would say I don’t HAVE TO GO. Now, I know me, he knows me. I don’t like parties with strangers. Hell, I don’t much like big gatherings at all. I also don’t like going to parties where everyone is going to be speaking spanish and I won’t be able to understand a thing. which is what this would be.
I would have gone for him, if he wanted me there, but something was weird. It was like he really didn’t want me there.
He asked his dad if I should go (it’s his dads side of the family). His dad said no.
He asked his mom. His mom said no.
I finally found out that they only invited him to dig into his life. They want to know who he married and all that. They want to judge me.
I guess they did the same to his mom. And she hated it. and she hasn’t really had a good relationship with that side of the family.
As a matter of fact, she’s not going to the party either. but her husband is.
This shocked me.
they want to judge me on what? lol.
baboo said looks and things like that.
Well. I’m a pregnant house, so fuck them on looks.
and I don’t speak spanish, so fuck themon that.
and just fuck them on anything if that’s the whole reason they want to invite Baboo to their dumb party.
However, he is still planning on going.
Great. whatever.
go. fine them.
they don’t want to see you or care about you beyond being idiots.
this is why I hate people.
Also, I will post pics of my house once it doesn’t look like a d ump of crazy. It’ll probably be months. lol.
Oh yeah, I have a ticker. Look at that!
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just wow. What is it with some people? seems like that side of your husband family has many insecurities. Unless they’re all models, who gives a crap about that. All i’ve ever wanted to know about any man in my daughter’s life is that they are good people. I can understand your annoyance. Hell I am annoyed. Good luck with the house. I am packing my place by myself and it sucks ass.
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That’s not very nice. And Baboo shouldn’t’ve had to ask them if you could go or not. If he wanted to take you there then he should’ve taken you there. I don’t see why people give a hell. He shouldn’t care about whether you’re gonna be judged or not. If he can hesitate and I’m not saying this to down your relationship then that doesn’t say a lot about his strong decision making. You should be able
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to go with him no ifs ands or buts about it. Despite what you don’t want to do or do want to do. He should be able to shun off their opinion and not give a crap about it and bring you along anyway because his opinion of you is what matters and is the most important of all anyway. You know he wouldn’t care if they liked it or not. Asking his family members like that and consulting with them first
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and that way shouldn’t have to be done and doesn’t show a lot of strength for his independent decision making and mind. Why should he let that influence him taking you. I can see why you’re feeling kind of stumped and whatever about it. Hugs.
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People like that irritate me. It’s why I hate them, too. :p
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Definitely does not sound like a party that I’d want to go to either. I am social, I like going to family events on Aleyn’s or my side, but not ones where I’m going to be judged out the ass. People are stupid. This is why I say dogs are better than most people.
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well boo on them! i hope baboo goes and talks you up to be the most amazing woman ever, because that’s what you deserve and that’s all they should know. 🙂
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Stuff judgemental people who act like idiots. Hey I may have bought a house today. Wooohoo!
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lame :/
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Dude… When you said even *his mom* wasn’t going because she did not want to deal with those people… das bad, yo. O.o Family or not, I’d bail. In a minute.
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doesn’t sound like a fun party to me either.
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I’d totally be glad not to be invited to something like that. <3
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And it’s this kind of Bull Crap that gives the words, “in-laws” a bad name.
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And then they wonder why we don’t like them and don’t want our kids to be around them. Nice “welcome” to the family! Ha! I just vow, that if I am lucky enough to ever have a son or daughter in law that I am also will be loving enough to love them and not be a total douche!
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What the hell, man? Screw them and their non-English speaking, judgmental asses! They dont know how awesome you are and that is their loss. You would think that that sort of crap went out with beef wellington. I say let them have their hater party while you stay home and grow a beautiful little baby, love your first two and put together your new life with and for your new husband.
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I’d learn how to say fuck you in Spanish and go to the party!!! Lol
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Honey, I know how you feel- I am shy too. But why WOULDN’T they want to know his wife??? Of course they do. I think you need to be a proud little mama, show up a while, then make up a pretend haftado and bow out. Give em a chance to impress YOU. Just a though. *love*
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Fuck ’em completley and don’t go. Leave ’em wondering…it might just kill ’em!! xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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yeah for house pics!! just dont even bother yourself with people like that, obviously baboo doesn’t care what they say and neither does his mother, if they aren’t even that involved in his life then its not something you’ll have to endure a lot. Baboo loves you so and the baby screw asshole people like that!
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I hate stupid people too. That is how that weird lady is that works here. judge judge judge…so we talk shit about her behind her back to make ourselves feel good. LOL RYN: I was kinda leaning toward that too. lol I have no other prospects. I’ll just resolve myself to being a whore for the rest of my years. LOL
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