Eeeeenteresting

The only good thing to report is that I only have to work two days this week.

Otherwise, it’s still Monday and it still sucks!

My weekend was quite interesting.

Friday night I went to pick up my kids and stayed for awhile because my youngest wanted to ride the horse (he had been promised and my step mom didn’t think i’d get there as early as I did) so we ended up waiting around for a few hours. it was boring because my parents had some guests over and didn’t really have time to pay attention to me. I tried to go outside while my mother was putting the saddles on the horses and ended up standing in a red ant pile!!!! I screamed and was so thankful my jeans protected my legs from the swarm of red ants that was all over my leg.  I jumped around like a lunatic for at least 5 minutes and got them all off my leg. Later I found two on my head, 3 on my neck and one on my shoulder and had the creepy crawlies for the rest of the day. 

I was so done with nature after that and didn’t stay to watch Jake ride. Maybe next time. I ended up talking to my sister Angelique and my brother Joseph for a bit. I picked my other brother Johny’s brain for a bit about computers when he got in from work.

After that I went home and moped around. My brother Gehrig, who is staying with me, hadn’t been feeling well. He had some muscle aches and when we got home I checked his temp and it was 101.8! I ended up going to a drug store and picking up some flu meds for him, which he was reluctant to take. He kept trying to act like he was fine, but he wasn’t! He got better by the end of Saturday, I’m guessing he had a little flu bug.

After that I went to sleep and woke up Saturday sorta meh. Baboo was gonna be spending the day with his family.

He did call me and ask about the room and sang me the song and was generally communicative when I reached out, so it wasn’t totally bad. I watched some tv, played video games, teased my kids, ya know the normal. ha ha.

So Sunday morning rolls around and I tried to make some bacon. But it had gone bad and stank to high heaven. Boo!

After that I started laundry and was doing pretty good. Baboo called and said he wanted me to come get him, so around 4 I went to do that and we went to Target and Costco for a few things he wanted. I didn’t have any money so I just watched him buy stuff (for a change ha ha). I did end up getting some cortizone cream because Jonathon got a bug bite and some water filters for my brita pitcher. Nothing major.

While we were out Baboo said he was definitely going to take the room and that I should call my landlord and let him know.

Honestly, it’s all happening so suddenly I’m like "wha who?!"

He DOES spend a lot of time at my house, so he might as well move there, but I jsut always imagined a more formal discussion about it.

Anyway, he said that he would and he began to make plans about it. He mentioned that at some point HIS little brother is gonna move into the room… that put me off at first because my house is already full and I don’t know his brother at all!  And if anyones brother should get more space, it’s mine. At least for now.

But I’m not gonna make a big ordeal about it. The room is pretty self contained with it’s own bathroom and his brother doesn’t cook so he can have a fridge and a microwave and be happy. Ha. So we’ll see how that works out. I just want to be more IN on things. Anyhow, he has a contract for satellite tv so I might end up putting the cable down to basic and negotiating a cut in the rent because I’ll be using the satellite and not the television and yeah… we’ll see. I want to keep the internet. I like cable internet. It’s fast.

ANYWAY… so all that talk of him actually moving in was huge. He has really surprised me. Honestly, I thought after all our drama last week, we’d be moving apart, not closer. I’m glad it’s this way instead of the other.

But him moving in isn’t gonna be some free pass for him to get a free ride on things, there will be some groundrules.

He WILL contribute to the household food  budget and whatever else. He will help pay for gas, especially if I have to pick him up from stuff all the time. I think it’ll work if we come to some basic agreements.

And so it goes.

So that’s pretty major.

On the other end of things, he was hanging out with his sister on Saturday and ended up drinking. *sigh* I was disappointed because we had agreed on 30 days of sobriety. He needs to detox completely and get his thoughts back on track.

Oh well, he’s a grown man, I can’t tell him what to do. His birthday is next month and I know he’ll want to drink, so now we are stuck with just the rest of this month to stay clean. He is gonna have his party on the 1st, even though his birthday is the 12th. He wants to do this pirate adventure dinner thing. Sorta like medieval times, but with pirates.

We need to send out e-vites today and get people to pay.  It’s SIXTY BUCKS… so I hope his friends are ready to shell it out. Cuz depending on how many people respond, we also have to split his ticket price, so it could be as much as 70 or 80 bucks per person.

that’s madness, if you ask me. It would be cheaper to go to a nice restaurant or something… but whatever floats his boat. He seems to think his friends won’t mind… riiiiiight.

So yeah.

Oh! and I FINALLY got laid this morning.
It was a mess.

He was really flirty yesterday and I just wasn’t having it. I kept trying to ignore him waving his nakedness at me because of all the rejection and teasing last week.

Well after things had settled in the house I finally decided to give hima bj. He had just showered and shaved just for me. ha ha. I had to take advantage of it.

but it wasn’t really "successful" if you catch my drift.

He kept saying it was the fact that my brother was in the other room and it just threw him off.

He said to wake him up at 4 cuz everyone would be sleep.

fat chance of that. We watched some tv and fell asleep.

well… odlly, i woke up to my alarm at 4. what the hell?! I didn’t set an alarm for 4!

anyway, it woke me up and i did a happy reach around and FINALLY got laid.

It was really really nice, but also REALLY REALLY QUIET.

I didn’t make a sound, ya’ll.

and it’s so hard to be hush hush, cuz I’m quite vocal about it all.

Oh well. I should get used to it. I might change the living room around this weekend to put the couch and couch bed on the far end of the room, and maybe that’ll loosen baboo up.

Whatever, I finally got some and I’m very glad. I was gonna go crazy. I masturbated a few times, but it always felt stupid after. ha ha.

Yay!

Anyway, on with Monday….

I’ll be back latah fwens.