April 9, 2013

A SAD DAY*

Today was a busy day but ended up a sad one. I went swimming in the morning.

Then I went to the library. I do not like the books I am reading. I was reading 419 and another one whose name escapes me. Anyhow I went to the bookstore and bought a romance novel by Debbie McComber. It seems to be very good. I am wondering if I read it before. I will have to look through my book list.

I went to the laundry to get a pair of pants shortened. They’ll be ready on Friday afternoon. I’ll probably pick them up on Saturday.

I went to get my hair cut. My hairdresser was off so I took someone else. She blow dries your hair and then cuts it. I never saw that before but it turned out ok.

Then I went for lunch at Pizza Hut. I relaxed, ate and read my book.

I went to the hospital. I visited my two friends. One is so sick. He told me that he is ready to die and that his wife and daughters would get over it. I told him WE LOVE HIM and need him around. On the other hand if I knew that he had no chance I would encourage his family to let him go. He has a huge bedsore that is very painful. He also has stage three cancer.

I came home. When I parked my car I noticed that hubby had a sticker about golf on his car. I couldn’t believe it. He never was happy when I put them on my car.

I had take out chicken but I didn’t want to prepare it. It was seven o”clock!!! Anyhow I took out left overs and that was supper.

I called my sister to tell her about my hubby and to ask her opinion. She suggested I follow him! No way!

Anyhow I went to talk to hubby. He told me that the woman had bought him the sticker and he didn’t think he could refuse to put it on his car??????????? I told him I still wasn’t happy with their relationship. Again he told me he was only playing golf with her. I believe him!!!!!!!!!! I must put it out of my mind!

So that was my day. Tomorrow I have to collect my urine for 24 hours. I hope we can go for our blood test on Friday. They predict snow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

scrpbookr

April 11, 2013

I believe he is just playing golf, too. But the sticker thing bothers me. You just say…. “I’m really not a sticker on the car sort of guy but I’ll find a place for it. Thank you” I do feel for you over your struggle on this one. Hang in there.

Hello! I have been reading you for about a year, but quietly. I just wanted to tell you that I really enjoy reading, and I think you are a really strong woman. The situation with your husband makes me sad. I guess because it’s bothering you, I wish he would just call it quits with that woman even if it is only golf. I also think you should follow him, just because (cont)

some part of you feels like it isn’t “just a gold buddy”. I think there is something to be said about intuition. You seem to have put a great deal of thought into it, and you don’t seem to be just getting carried away by jealousy. This is just my thoughts though. My thoughts are with you.

*golf buddy! Sorry for the typos!

cardslinger

This must be so difficult but I think he really might just be playing golf with her and just isn’t looking clearly at how his actions appear to others. Sometimes people are clueless.

gray tabby

maybe he doesn’t realize how his playing golf with her looks to you and how it affects you. wonder how he’d feel if you had a male friend and went swimming with him every day or so? wonder if you’d be able to make him believe that the guy is only a friend? prayers for you. take care,

Texcowgirl

I like what Gray tabby said. BUT I do hope you have a better day any ways. Smile

sweetsanctuari

I hope there’s nothing between your hubby and the woman. Have a nice day.

So sad about your friend who says he’s ready to die. 🙁 I too feel your husband is only playing golf with the woman… if there was something more, he’d probably try to hide their relationship and not put a sticker from her on his car. *hugs*

I will pray for your friend who is so ill, and all his family and friends, including you & hubby. I don’t think your hubby is having an affair, just friends, but still, that used to bother me. I hope it’s a better day for you, today. Are you in FL? It’s supposed to snow there? good grief. We just got another snow storm, heh, welcome to Spring!! I am in Minnesota, though, but, still!! bighugz.

offmychest

I would suggest that you find yourself a guy friend to do things with every day that he is golfing, see how he likes it. if he doesn’t care then your relationship is truly over, if he gets jealous then he will at least know how you feel.. I am also wondering is the other woman married or single? Maybe she is trying to steal him away from you. that is what happened to me, a woman my ex was talkingto on the internet stole him from me, well she can have him now but it hurt at the time.

TheWoodsprite

Well, so now if you want to put a bumper sticker on your car, just do it! You can certainly say “well you have one on yours, so I can have one on mine too.” It’s true. You can! I can sortuv understand him putting in on the car; when someone gives you a gift you kinda feel like you have to use it or display it. Aw, I don’t think it’s right to tell people who are dying that we need them to try to stick around. I think they have earned their right to die and be free of the pain. Those of us who loved them will just have to get along without them. Better than seeing them suffer. hugs, Nicky

Gregory & Heidi

I think this woman is pursuing him and he is completely clueless

Tornado

I’ve got to agree with Heidi. I think she is the one doing the pursuing! Especially if she knows it bothers you for them to be together so much and she continues to be with him and even gives him a gift.

JadedAngel68

I too think that maybe she is pursuing him and he just doesnt see it..to him it is just golf maybe more to her. Maybe you need to find a friend to do things that you like to do with.

Gypsy Spirit

the hardest part of dying is the knowledge loved ones will struggle to cope, but in reality it is important to give the dying person ‘permission’ to die with peace rather than selfishly want them to hang on for someone else’s happiness. No one deserves to suffer. Sorry it was a difficult ending to a nice day for you. hugs p

Nectar

I would not be happy with hubby putting something on the car to impress another person. but i am sure it was just that. x

silverliningx4

April 12, 2013

I have a sticker on my car that says “Zombies (heart) a girl with brains”. You should get one and put it on your car. LOL

My husband plays in a band where women come on to him. Men make a choice. If you know he loves you, it is so nothing. I don’t know what the sticker even said.