I’M GOING HOME
Hubby doesn’t know it yet because he’s sleeping but I am going home on Wednesday. I made the decision because our good friend was just taken into Paliative care. I hope I make it home on time but it doesn’t matter because I want to be at home. There is just too much going on. I am not sure what hubby will do but I AM GOING HOME. I will probably leave on Wednesday and stay until the 15th after my son’s birthday. I haven’t been home for his birthday for years. So I will do what I wanted to do but decided not to do for many reasons.
I will be at home to visit my dying friend or at least I will be there to support the family. I have known them forever and my hubby even longer.
I will visit my friend who just lost her husband.
I will go to Ottawa for two days at least to visit friends there.
Finally I will go to Toronto to see my SIL and my BIL.
I will see my sons and grandchildren.
I am counting on my eldest son to travel with me but if he doesn’t I’ll take a taxi, a bus whatever I have to do.
I hope I don’t get flack from my hubby. I finally made a decision. Florida will still be here when I come back and I will have a clear conscience. I am NOT going home because I feel guilty but I have compassion for my friends. Florida is wonderful and I am happy to be here but my heart is at home so I’m going!
Bless your heart. I’m betting your husband will decide to go with you.
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You do have a big heart; you are really sensitive to the feelings of others.
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It’s good that you made a decision that gives you peace of mind. Supporting your friends is a good thing, when you have known them for so long. hugs, Nicky
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glad you finally made a decision. i’m sure it’s the one that’s best for you. prayers for you and your friend. take care,
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***HUGS** You’ve been beating yourself up with indecision for too many days. I’m glad you are doing what you need to do. And, I’m truly sorry about your friends and family. You are each going through so much right now.
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I think you made the right choice, your hubby will just have to accept it.
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You are going to be an angel to those you are visiting- especially your son. I like that you have already made up your mind and Hubby is just going to have to deal with it. Our men have to learn to survive without us. I’m still teaching mine that lesson! Blessings to you and I pray that it all runs as smoothly as you are looking for it to be.
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Good for you for doing what you know is right.
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I’m glad you decided to go. It’s the right thing to do.
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The heart can speak loudly at times and needs to be listened to.
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I hope he doesn’t give you flack for going, but I’m glad you ARE going. Will he be upset that you are going at all or that you decided without talking to him about it?
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