WHINING AND COMPLAINING
I KNOW THAT MY GRANDCHILDREN ARE JUST THAT!!!!!!! NOT MY CHILDREN AND THEIR PARENTS HAVE MORE RIGHTS THAN I EVER WILL!!!!!!!!!! BUT>>>>>>>>>>>>>
I SENT THEM A PRESENT THAT THEY WANTED LAST WINTER. THEIR PARENTS STILL HAVEN’T GIVEN IT TO THEM. I DIDN’T ASK MY GRANDSON WHY. I DIDN’T THINK OF IT AT THE TIME. I AM SURE THEY HAVE A GOOD REASON LIKE:
1. THEY DON’T WANT THEM TO GET EVERYTHING THEY ASK FOR
2. THEY DON’T WANT THEM TO GET SPOILED – SO FAR I NEVER SAW A SPOILED CHILD JUST SPOILED FOOD
3. THEY THINK THEY HAVE TOO MUCH – OK! THEY PROBABLY DO.
4. THEY PROBABLY WANT THE CHILDREN TO PAY FOR WHAT THEY WANT – PROBABLY A GOOD LESSON BUT I THOUGHT GRANDMOTHERS HAVE SPECIAL PRIVILEGES
SO
BEING THE BITCH THAT I AM AND WRONG AND UPSET ANYWAYS I WILL NOT SEND THEM ANYTHING NEXT WINTER.
I WILL SAVE A FORTUNE AND THEIR PARENTS WILL NOT HAVE TO DECIDE WHAT TO GIVE THEM AND COMPLAIN THAT THEY GOT TOO MUCH.
I WILL NOT HAVE TO GO TO THE POST OFFICE
I WILL SAVE TONS OF MONEY JUST LIKE I DID THIS SUMMER BY NOT TAKING THEM. I WILL NOT TAKE THEM EVEN THOUGH I AM DRIVING NOW. MORE FREE TIME FOR MYSELF. I WILL NOT HAVE TO RUN AROUND. THEY LIVE ABOUT HALF HOUR AWAY. I WILL NOT HAVE TO THINK WHAT I SHOULD DO WITH THEM. I WILL NOT BUY THEM ANYTHING THAT THEIR PARENTS HAVE THE RIGHT AND PRIVILEGE NOT TO WANT THEM TO HAVE.
A WIN-WIN SITUATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SO BE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
This upsets me that you buy stuff for the grandkids and their parents do not give it to them. I would be totally upset if my children did that with what I buy my grandchildren. I am allowed to buy them something if I want unless the parents tell me that so and so is on restriction and cannot have any new gifts until such and such a time. I would be complaining. Love,
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seems you need to discuss things properly but tactfully with your children….find out how their values differ etc…. hugs P
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You sound angry, I think you should discuss this with your son, grandmothers are supposed to spoil their grandchildren a little bit. If there is something they absolutely do not want their kids to have from you, they should have told you first.
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I’d be really angry if I bought something for my grandkids and their parents didn’t give it to them. I mean, after all…. you spent your money on it; what are the parents doing with it, just stashing it in a closet or something???? or did they throw it away?? Maybe you should send them a bill for it! hugs, Nicky
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Hope you get this straightened out:(
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