IT’S PRETTY PROFOUND
GRATITUDE
I have this computer to play with when I can’t sleep.
IT’s PRETTY PROFOUND.
Too many people put off something that brings them
joy just because they haven’t thought about it, don’t
have it on their schedule, didn’t know it was coming or
are too rigid to depart from their routine.
I got to thinking one day about all those women on the
Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful
night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I’ve tried
to be a little more flexible.
How many women out there will eat at home because
their husband didn’t suggest going out to dinner until
after something had been thawed? Does the word
"refrigeration" mean nothing to you?
How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in
silence while you watched ‘Jeopardy’ on television?
I cannot count the times I called my sister and said,
"How about going to lunch in a half hour?" She would
gas up and stammer, "I can’t. I have clothes on the
line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I
had a late breakfast, It looks like rain." And my
personal favorite: "It’s Monday." …She died a few
years ago. We never did have lunch together.
Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we
tend to schedule our headaches.. We live on a sparse
diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the
conditions are perfect!
We’ll go back and visit the grandparents when we get
Stevie toilet-trained. We’ll entertain when we replace
the living-room carpet. We’ll go on a second
honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.
Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The
days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves
gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and all we have
to show for our lives is a litany of "I’m going to," "I
plan on," and "Someday, when things are settled down a
bit."
When anyone calls my ‘seize the moment’ friend, she is
open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an
open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is
contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and
you’re ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of
Rollerblades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord.
My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love
ice cream. It’s just that I might as well apply it
directly to my stomach with a spatula and eliminate the
digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car
and bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an
iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.
Now…go on and have a nice day. Do something you
WANT to……not something on your SHOULD DO list. If
you were going to die soon and had only one phone call
you could make, who would you call and what would you
say? And why are you waiting?
Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand
why I sent this to you.
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go
round or listened to the rain lapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly’s erratic flight or gazed at
the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each
day on the fly? When you ask "How are you?" Do you
hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the
next hundred chores running through your head? Ever
told your child, "We’ll do it tomorrow." And in your
haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good
friendship die? Just call to say "Hi"?
When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like
an unopened gift….Thrown away… Life is not a race.
Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over
It’s National Friendship Week. Show your friends how
much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a
FRIEND. If it comes back to you, then you’ll know you
have a circle of friends.
To those I have sent this to… I LOVE you & cherish our
friendship.
"Life may not be the party we hoped for… but while we
are here we might as well dance!"
This is good!! Thanks.
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This is great. One of my clients just told me she has stomach cancer. Made me think about how lucky I am and how precious life is. No more skipping dessert for me! 😉
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I love this entry! My friend Wendy is never ready to do ANYthing because she always has a whole list of stuff she says she “has to take care of FIRST.” And the list of stuff she “has to take care of FIRST” is always just as long as it was the week or month before! My oldest sister and her husband were going to travel when she retired. By the time she retired, he, being older than her, was inill health and not really able to take long trips. So they went nowhere before, and they go nowhere now either! hugs, Nicky
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profound indeed!! thanks, its great. hugs P
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Very good advice!
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This was so much fun to read! I could see myself a little bit. I better wise up, huh? :O) Love,
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Now, can we apply any of this to our own lives?
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