NOTHING MUCH – OK

Monday night we went over to visit my very sick friend. She looked like hell. This woman who always had her hair done, makeup on was in pain and not looking good at all. It broke my heart. All I can do is think about her and how it could be me. How do you live through and with cancer? How do you live knowing you might die? I told her to call me anytime. I told her if she needs me to go with her for a doctor’s appointment etc. to just call. She said she would. Apparently she didn’t have a mammogram in three years. I think I will go every year now. Now she a a mass in her breast. It is so painful to watch her move as she is in pain. Luckily she has been a nurse in the hospital for many years and is getting royal treatment.
On Monday after we left my hubby wanted to know why we left so fast. I thought our friend was in pain and uncomfortable. I guess I should have asked her if she wanted us to stay.
My ex DIL thought I had lied to her. What is with people?????? I had written her that I would prefer to take my grandson on Wednesday because we were going to Toronto on Thursday. She said it wouldn’t work out because she had plans. So that was it. I decided to take a week off from seeing my grandson. Last night my son who works with my ex DIL came over and told me that she was upset because she thought I had changed the day I took him because I wanted to take him to my son’s house for his girlfriend’s birthday party. OY! I wrote her and told her that I would never do that because I knew she would let us have him whenever possible. Why do people’s minds work like that? As it is, my SIL called Monday to tell us to come the week after because they are having a party.
This afternoon we are going to my sons for a barbecue for his girlfriend’s birthday party.
This morning I am going to the gyno. I think I am going to tell her I want to go for a mammogram every year.
What is this obsession with Michael? Is there nothing more important happening in the world????
I am planning to make a scarpbook for my SIL so yesterday my friend and I went to the scrapbook store. I hadn’t been there in quite awhile and wasn’t so impressed. She us to have a lot more stock! Anyways I bought everything I would need to make the scrapbook. Now I have to get busy. My hubby also wants me to make her an egg which won’t take very long. I just have to shrink two pictures to put on both sides of the egg. The I’ll add some crystals and then it will be done. I need all this done by next Friday. I will have plenty of time in the country. I am not sure when we are going as we have nothing tomorrow so really could go but so far hubby hasn’t said anything so don’t think I will.
Last night on the way home from bridge we had another disagreement about money. Hubby wants to start giving one of my son’s money every month towards his mortgage. I couldn’t understand why he would want to give away money when he is always crying we spend too much and can’t live within our budget. He also gives a big chunk of change to my grandson every month. I told him I’ll think about it but that I don’t think we can afford it. As always I think we have more money then he says but I’ll never know. I think my son should stand on his own two feet. No one told him to buy such an expensive house!!! Am I cold and selfish? Maybe but I don’t care. Whenever I want to go somewhere or do something my hubby is always crying poverty. We are still supporting my daughtera nd it’s costing us plenty so until he can stop complaining I don’t think we should give my son any money. I guess we could give him a present for the house but that’s it.
Anyhow better go get ready. It’s Canada Day so there shouldn;t be much traffic.
Take care. hve a good, healthy one.