ANOTHER WEEKEND OVER-ok

I realize that I am a very emotional person and the littlest thing puts me in a funk. Usually it doesn’t last very long thank goodness.
Saturday we went shopping. I also went shopping with the women Saturday night. Now the trailer is well stocked! I also made a taggie blanket. Two friends gave birth in Israel so want to send two blankets each.
On Sunday hubby and I went into town. We didn’t need anything special. I went to the dollar stores and hubby went to some other stores. On the way we were discussing what we would buy in town. I told him I had a raincheck for hot dogs so if he was going to Price Chopper he could pick them up. He asked what they  were for and I said Whatever! He got so mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told him that we would keep them or give them to my friend. I felt we could use the rain check before we lost or forgot about it. I didn’t think it was serious. Well he got so mad and said that’s why he doesn’t like to talk. I realize that hubby needs to know EXACTLY what is going to happen – what things are for. He does things very slowly. Simple decisions take him hours or even longer to make. I have learned to adjust but sometimes it is so hard. I was upset the rest of the day.
Another example. I wanted to buy a GPS for my son who is always helping everyone. I asked him to pick one up. When someone forgets their key, needs mail picked up when they are away etc. etc. he is always there. I mentioned that he should buy the GPS a few weeks ago. Has he done it? No he isn’t even thinking about it. He has to do research in what they can do, how they do it, how much they are etc. Give me a break!!! I guess I will buy one for my son as soon as I save up some money. His brother is just as bad. I know I am fast and maybe sometimes I make a decision too fast but I have learned from him to take things slower. But he is impossible. Especially now that he is retired he is slow and lazy because there are a lot of things he just doesn’t want to be bothered with.
Anyways I know what he is like. I have to adapt as I always did. I have a lot to do today. I must get my hair cut. I have a package to mail to my great nephew. He loves tshirts. I bought him some on the weekend.
We are playing bridge here tomorrow night so have to buy some stuff for dessert.
I am rereading my diary. I have deleted some entries – no use upsetting my children after I die.
Have a wonderful day.
My sugar is still high. I will have to call my doctor and she will probably change my medication.

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May 4, 2009

I have a client like that. It can be frustrating. I just give him a deadline and that seems to work somewhat.

May 4, 2009

I think that would drive me crazy but RJ has to ok everything that is purchased around here and sometimes that gets to me. I wish I had my own money sometimes but I sure don’t want to work anymore than the little I do so I just learn to live with it. Hope you get your sugar under control.

May 4, 2009

Just wondering…..Why is it always the woman that has to adapt?? Relationships are give and take. He needs to give more. Just my opinion.

May 4, 2009

This is why I am so glad that I am independent and can make my own decisions and do not have to check with anybody first. Makes my life so much easier.

May 4, 2009

If Joe demanded to know what I wanted to buy hot dogs for, I think I’d just smack him over the head and be done with him! What the heck business is it of the husband’s, what the wife buys hot dogs for anyway? Is there anything else one would do with them other than cook them and eat them? Good golly! Maybe you should’ve told him you were going to plant them in the garden and grow your own to savemoney! hugs, Weesprite

May 4, 2009

what is a taggie blanket? hugs p