ENJOY YOUR DAY
Enjoy your day.
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> I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family
> for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I’ve aged, I’ve become kinder to
> myself, and less critical of myself. I’ve become my own friend. I don’t
> chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making
> my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn’t need, but looks
> so avante garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be
> extravagant.
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> I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they
> understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
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> Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM
> and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of
> the 60 &70’s, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love …
> I will.*
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> I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body,
> and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the
> pitying glances from the jet set.**
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> They, too, will get old.
> I know I am sometimes forgetful.
> But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually
> remember the important things.
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> Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break
> when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody’s
> beloved pet gets hit by a car?*
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> *But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and
> compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know
> the joy of being imperfect.*
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> I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and
> to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.
> So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could
> turn silver. *
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> As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what
> other people think. I don’t question myself anymore.
> I’ve even earned the right to be wrong.
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> So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like
> the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am
> still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or
> worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day(if I
> feel like it). **
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> MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART ESPECIALLY WHEN IT’S STRAIGHT FROM THE
> HEART!*
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> MAY YOU ALWAYS HAVE A RAINBOW OF SMILES ON YOUR FACE AND IN YOUR HEART
> FOREVER AND EVER! FRIENDS FOREVER!*
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You know your real self Its not easy to enjoy yourself/myself every day To be younger again Ah! with the knowldge and experiences; of our developed experiences good and bad ! It is wonderfull to have 3 children + 15 grandchildren plus what I am despite the bad in my life
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You have a good attitude about aging!
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I used to think I’d rather die than grow old! I don’t know for sure what happened to change my outlook, but I am so thankful something did happen. Cuz now I so look forward to growing older, and any changes that have come to me so far, I actually enjoy! :o) !! One of the things I like best about you is the SUPER healthy attitude you have about being the age you are, and everything that goes with it. Thanks for sharing that so much here in your diary! hugs, Weesprite
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Its not the getting old uts the getting useless that hate. want to paint rooms clean house cook and cannot do ant thng right now but some coooking. I am a good cook had plenty of practice over the last 46 years.
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It looks like I can’t spell either as you have to hit my i hard and then these clumby fingers hit buttons they shouldn’t hit.
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Love this one. Have a good day.
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thats great. hugs P
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