SO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED? READ THIS FIRST!!!!

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This is just a FEW reminders about what marriage will be like.
* SEX WILL TAKE A BACK SEAT TO LIFE. AT TIMES YOU WILL EVEN FORGET WHAT SEX IS.
* YOU WILL REALIZE THAT YOUR LOVED ONE HAS MANY DIFFERENT IDEAS FROM YOU. SO WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? COMPROMISE!!!
* YOU WILL NOTICE THAT YOUR LOVED ONE LOOKS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT FROM THE PERSON YOU MARRIED ESPECIALLY THAT PERSON AT YOUR WEDDING.
* YOU WILL NOTICE THAT YOUR LOVED ONE HAS ANNOYING HABITS. SO DO YOU!!!! HOW YOU COPE IS THE QUESTION. WHAT IS THE ANSWER?
* YOU WILL REALIZE THAT YOU BOTH WANT TO SPEND YOUR HARD EARNED MONEY ON DIFFERENT THINGS. COMPROMISE!!!!!!
* THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS GIVING FIFTY FIFTY. YOU BOTH HAVE TO GIVE 100%.
* OFTEN YOU WILL NOT AGREE ON THE IMPORTANT POINTS SUCH AS HOW MANY CHILDREN TO HAVE, WHERE TO GO ON VACATION, WHAT RESTAURANT TO GO TO….
HOW WILL YOU BOTH MAKE DECISIONS??????????? LONG TALKS, EACH OF YOU LISTENING TO THE OTHER AND THEN DRAWING UP A LIST OF POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS. DISCUSS EACH ONE INDIVIDUAL AND DECIDE WHICH ONE YOU COULD BOTH LIVE WITH.
ALWAYS REMEMBER: YOU HAVE TWO EARS AND ONE MOUTH. LISTEN TWICE AS MUCH AS YOU SPEAK.
I AM SURE YOU ALL HAVE SOME SUGGESTIONS. SHOULD WE WRITE A BOOK?????? THIS BOOK WOULD BE REQUIRED READING FOR EVERY ENGAGED COUPLE.

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OMG… NO marriage for ME!!

November 25, 2006

that “two ears, one mouth” concept applies in all relationships….and with marriage I guess we could use even further notions of “two arms, one organ” as well. lol sending hugs for a happy weekend, P

November 25, 2006

I love this…you have much wisdom…all of which I totally agree. People are just too selfish these days to make marriages work!!