SITTING SHIVA-ok
Today was the first day of sitting shiva. I always knew I would hate it and I do. I have to sit all day on this hard chair and people are coming and going. My sister NEVER stops talking!!!!!! The same stories. I don’t have a chance to say a word. I don’t think I’ll survive three more days. My hubby always says it’s the best thing after someone dies. Maybe for him. I just want to SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Take a deep breath and repeat after me…I will get throught this. This too shall pass.
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Oh my, I don’t know what to say. You are in my thoughts. hugs,
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My thoughts are with you.
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try some quiet meditation..it could help. You should be getting used to this but it certainly can’t be easy. hugs and prayers,
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God, it sounds horrible. I haven’t been in your situation, but I always think I’d like to be alone — being with people is supposed to help, but your sister sounds maddening. I know my brother would be!
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This is such a hard time to get through. At the visitation after my Mother’s death some people acted so weird — a lot of strange things happened. Probably your sister’s nerves are shot, too. Hang in there. This too will pass.
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*HUG* I always just want to be left alone when I hurt. I think it’s hard to have to be social.
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I am so sorry about all that you’ve been through. You must be exhausted. Take Care of yourself.
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Good luck making it thru it, but your hubby is probably right, you might feel a little better afterwards, but then again I wouldn’t know I’ve never done it. Latas.
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RYN: When I get my digital camera I will take lots of pictures of all the places I go. I’ll be sure to include the Shuk. How are you holding up? You are very much on my mind.
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I’m sorry to hear about your mother, especially so soon after your brother. It’s very hard. Here, let me take a place at Shiva; I’ll stand in for you. Get some rest and relief from your sister.
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I feel for ya. You just did this not long ago, and here you are having to it again. Is there any chance your sister will ever just get tired of talking???? I’ll be thinkin’ of you with sympathy! hugs, Weesprite
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