weekend update

I know, I know, I’m not usually the one who will update more than once a week, sometimes month, or semi annually, but I’m pretty much caught up on all my favorites, so I figured I had nothing more to do besides write.  I figured I would write about my weekend.  Friday night, I went to a party at a friend’s house.  There were probably around 20 people there, and they were all guys.  (go figure, huh?)  Out of the 20 guys there, two were straight.  Of course, they were both in the top 5 of the cute ones there, too.  LOL 

One of the guys there, I met a few years ago.  He’s the type of gay guy who always needs drama in his life.  If there isn’t drama in it, he will create some.  He was there with his boyfriend, but his boyfriend didn’t want to be there.  The boyfriend just sat in the family room and watched “Steel Magnolias” until that finished, then he just sat there by himself.  Of course, drama queen was flitting around the house, drinking to excess, and telling everyone how much trouble he was going to be in when they got home.  blah blah blah. 

Finally, boyfriend got tired of it all, and decided he wanted to go home.  DQ let him go home, taking the car.  Apparently he wanted to stay longer and drink more (something he REALLY didn’t need)  All night long, DQ had been telling one of the straight guys how hot he thought he was.  After  boyfriend left, it got worse.  It was bad enough that DQ was lusting after Straight Boy, but Straight Boy didn’t do much to keep himself out of reach, either.  He said that he believed everyone is bisexual.  This only added fuel to the flame.  At one point we were outside, just the three of us, talking, and of course, DQ had to bring the subject around to sex again.  We were talking about oral sex, and different things we liked.  SB said he really enjoyed having someone lick his “taint”, the area between his sack and anus.  I had to speak up, and tell him that although that was great, it’s even better to have someone doing that, and then someone else working the shaft.  Everyone thought that sounded great.  Of course, this only made DQ think that he and I were somehow going to be able to perform this on SB.  ugh!  So the rest of the night was spent with DQ flirting with SB, and trying to convince me to stay and “play” with them.  He just couldn’t get it through his head that SB didn’t WANT to do it with other guys!  Finally, I had to get out of there, as DQ was just getting on my nerves.  I suggested that SB come home with me, just to get him away from DQ.  LOL  Of course, I was joking, and SB knew it, and didn’t take it seriously.  I don’t know what happened after I left, but I still feel sorry for poor SB.  Anyway, I got home around 3, and went directly to bed. 

Was up again and out the door by 9:30.  Went over to a friend’s house. She was taking me over to one of her friends’ house, to give an estimate on how much it would cost her to finish her basement.  We walked around and saw what was all needed, and I told her how much I thought materials would cost.  (very rough estimate)  We then sat around and talked for a little while longer, then I decided to leave.  I had to go finish a carpet job I had been working on.  Stopped and got something to eat, then went and finished the carpet job, and then came back home to gather some things and head over to another friend’s house.  Went over to his house, and we sat around and watched tv most of the evening.  played some Nintendo (yes, Nintendo, anyone remember that?)  and finally went to bed around 5:30 AM.  I finally got up around 2.  LOL  I must have needed the sleep.  This is entirely possible, since I hadn’t had a real full night’s sleep all week!  I was able to go to bed fairly early (for me) last night too.  Of course, it was still difficult to get up this morning.  LOL

So, this was my weekend.  Nothing really exciting, but still fairly fun.  🙂  Now I hope the week goes well too.  I’m going to have to get the ingredients and do some baking.   I want to make some cookies and stuff, and I am going to make a homemade apple pie for Thanksgiving dinner.  I’ll be going to VL and Pink’s father’s place for the holiday again, and I can’t wait.  Step mom is such an awesome cook, I never leave their place hungry!  I just can’t help but have seconds when everything is so darned tasty!  Sometimes I don’t even need dessert, but I know that’s good too, so I try to fit some in.  LOL

VL is talking about going on the South Beach Diet.  From what I’ve heard, it is similar to the Atkins diet, but not quite as rigid.  I’ll have to do some research on it to see what it’s all about.  She wants me to go on it with her, to help support her.  I guess misery loves company, right?  LOL  I would like to lose some weight, but I am just not sure whether I could make it without my Mountain Dew.  Some people live for their coffee.  I live for my Mountain Dew.  Every once in a while, I know I need one, when I’m getting a little to much blood in my Mountain Dew stream.  LOL  Other than that, though, I think I could be fairly successful with it.  (I think)  I’m thinking I am going to give it a try.  I’m going to have to start weaning myself off the Mountain Dew, though.  I don’t want to go crazy the first couple weeks, when I can’t have ANY Dew.  I suggested to VL last night that we go to Costco and buy up lots of cases of water to drink in place of the sodas.  VL has been doing great, it is her 6th day today without any Diet Coke. 

I’m also thinking seriously about quitting smoking.  VL’s boys are such wonderful kids, and they both have been asking me to quit.  Until lately, I thought it was just because they didn’t like the smell, or something like that, but lately, they’ve been talking about how bad it is for you and stuff.  So that makes me believe that they want me to quit because they care about me and want me around.  When a 7 year old and an 11 year old are talking about the health benefits of quitting smoking, somehow it seems to hit home a little bit harder.  They’ve talked about how they would like me, Aunt Pink, and VL’s Mom to all quit.  I wonder if I quit, if it would have any effect on Pink or Mom…   I would like to see Pink quit too.  I think it would be great if we could quit at the same time, but I don’t think she really wants to quit.  It would be nice if I could quit.  I wouldn’t have to go outside in the bitter cold to smoke all the time this winter.  That would be SO nice!  Well, I’m going to continue thinking about it, and hopefully I will set a date and stick to it!

Well, I’ve rambled on enough I think.